2012 Winter Headline

BRITISH COLUMBIA’S VOICE FOR THE BRAIN INJURY COMMUNITY

Winter 2012

Happy Birthday, Frédéric Côté!
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Greetings!
At the time of writing this greeting, hundreds of thousands of people are struggling to cope with the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy. More than 110 individuals in approximately 9 states lost their lives as a result of this super storm. The ripple effect of their deaths will be felt far and wide as families and friends learn of their fate. Many survivors of Sandy have lost their possessions in piles of rubble, others were flooded and without power. The devastation physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially is of magnitude proportions. As the holidays approach, take time to send a prayer to those affected by this major disaster and wish them comfort and peace during this difficult time. In this issue, we feature Fred Côté, a young man who is making tremendous strides in his recovery. Prince George Brain Injury Group is keeping busy and submitted an article on a unique initiative in their organization to assist their members with banking. We have all the usual tidbits too and appreciate the support we have received this year from all of you in submitting your articles, poems and notifications. Moreover, we are extremely grateful to our advertisers – your support is the backbone of Headline. Thank you! In closing, Santa and I wish you all a joyous and cozy holiday season. Take time to live, love, laugh, and to make memories!

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Government Resources
Regional Health Authority’s ABI Coordinators: Fraser Health - Aquired Brain injury Program-604-520-4175 Interior Health Authority-250-870-4664, Contact Name: Deborah Preston Acquired Brain Injury Program, Northern Health Call 250-565-7393 Vancouver Coastal Health Authority-604-714-4159 Vancouver Island Health Authority- 250- 370-8699, Contact Name: Judith Armstrong Enquiry BC-to locate Provincial Government Departments • Lower Mainland 604-660-2421 • Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-7867 • Victoria 250-387-6121 Ministry of Advanced Education, Training and Technology: Open Learning Information: • In and Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-1633 Student Loan Information: • Lower Mainland 604-660-2610 • Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-561-1818- select 1 then 5 Public Guardian & Trustee of British Columbia: • 700-808 West Hastings St. Vancouver, BC V6B 3L3 Victim’s Info Line: • 1-800-563-0808 Adult and Youth Addiction Services: • Lower Mainland 604-660-9382 • Outside Lower Mainland 1-800-663-1441

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The Despairing Difference in Income Support Programs
It would be wonderful if someone could explain to our readers how this is possible: The income support program for persons with disabilities differs greatly for those living in British Columbia. Why? On February 10, 2012, the Government of Canada sent out a news release stating they will double the threshold for employment exemptions from $400 $800 per month for single Assured Income for the Severely Handicapped (AISH) clients. In October, the BC Government increased the earnings exemption for persons with disabilities from $500 to $800 per person. So in this respect, BC appears to be on par; however, looking at the monthly benefits payable, the backgrounder with the news release shared the following table and the BC rates seem to differ vastly: month. It doesn’t take much of a mathematician to see that the monthly benefit of $906 is/can be totally consumed by the rent without factoring in utilities or food. It is a great incentive to allow individuals to work and earn up to $800 per month in addition to their base pension. And if they have the capacity to work even part time, then they should. But what if the person is not able to work? Many survivors are not able to return to work – ever –in any capacity. Should they be penalized? If they are restricted to living on $906 per month, it feels that way. In British Columbia, many survivors of brain injury have no other financial support than that of PWD pension. The next provincial election is slated for May 13, 2013. It would be a good time for those seeking election to take up this cause on behalf of their constituents. With 8,000 – 14,000 newly acquired brain injuries occurring each year in British Columbia (added to those with existing injuries) the chance of voters in any city or town being affected by this is high.

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By Shirley Johnson Are YOU ready for December? No, I’m not talking about carols, ‘prescribes’ a medication that is available over the counter ask decorations and Christmas. I’m talking about the end of the that he write it out on a prescription form and attach your receipt year when it’s time to make sure you have all you ‘stuff’ ready to that form for consideration. Many of the deductions must be to prepare your income tax returns. Already you’re saying to paid to a professional who normally offers such services and yourself that you don’t need to think about that yet but it really is payments to a relative are not eligible. In almost all cases, to be time to start preparing. eligible for a deduction, there must be an accompanying note/ letter from a doctor clearly outlining the necessity of the service In addition to the usual - getting your T-4’s for wages and other or device. These receipts do not have to be claimed on a Januincome - there are some areas to consider if you have a severe ary through December basis but can be for the 12 month period and prolonged disability that affects your daily living or if you are that gives you the most benefit (so long as it ends in the current caregiver for someone who does. calendar year). First and foremost, does this disability affect one’s daily living Finally, a caregiver might be eligible for a caregiver deduction, in the area of feeding, dressing, speaking, bowel and bladder which is an amount for a relative of yours, or your spouse or functions, or performing the mental functions that are necessary common-law partner’s, who is dependent on you because of a for everyday life? If this fits your situation then you may qualify physical or mental infirmity. for a disability tax credit. You think that you don’t have enough income to bother? Perhaps you are right, but you might be able This is only a summarized overview of things to consider. The to transfer this tax credit to someone else. important thing to remember is to be prepared – have your documents collected so you don’t miss anything and have proof If you require an assistant to enable you to perform your daily for every deduction as well as doctor’s confirmation of your imactivities and pay for that help you must have a doctor confirm pairment. When it comes time to actually filing your Income Tax this need in writing and you must get a receipt from the assistReturn, please have someone experienced in filing for persons ant (with their social insurance number noted on it for CRA refwith infirmities help you so as to ensure you get the maximum erence). The cost of this assistance is a tax deductible expense deductions allowable. This does not usually include the kiosk in for you. the mall or grocery store tax preparers. In addition, every person should keep ALL their receipts for If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to email me – medical expenses – prescriptions, physiotherapy, massage by a [email protected]. registered massage therapist, hearing aids and batteries, counselling and everything else of a medical nature. If your doctor

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Helmet Hair or Long Term Care?
Greg Goldberg, a contractor in the Cridge Brain Injury Services program, was appalled to learn that a large number of teenagers and adults simply refuse to wear a helmet while riding their bikes. Greg states, “I was even more appalled to be informed that the prime reason causing fear amongst riders to wear a helmet was… prepare yourself for shock… dreaded helmet hair.” Greg’s shock and dismay with this all too common reason for not wearing a helmet is further fueled by his personal experience. Greg knows firsthand the challenges and struggle to regain life after being involved in a horrific car crash while driving to work in 1998. Although Greg’s injury was not bicycle related, the deficits and impact a brain injury had on his life mirrors hundreds, if not thousands, of people living with an acquired brain injury. Each year between 8,000 and 14,000 British Columbians acquire a brain injury resulting from an external blow to the head (e.g. concussion, bike crash, car crash, and falls) vascular injuries, anoxia, metabolic disease, brain tumors, brain atrophy, and poisoning. Following an extensive rehabilitation, Greg learned to adapt to his limitations and to be proactive in managing and structuring his life so he can enjoy it to the fullest. One way that Greg was able to release the tension and stress of what happened was to keep a journal. “Keeping a journal was such a release and outlet that I decided to write a fictional book based on my real life experience,” states Greg. Greg’s book The Organ of Intelligence is a dark comedy telling the story of Reuban Cohen, a brain injury survivor. The bike helmet laws in British Columbia are currently under attack. Riders are reluctant to wear a helmet for short trips and feel inconvenienced by carrying one around with them. Greg believes as a society we must come with creative ways to convince bike riders that wearing a helmet is safe, fashionable and should be a common practice. In reaction to this unfortunately growing, dangerous habit, Greg inspired a partnership between The Cridge Centre for the Family and British Columbia Brain Injury Association to design a unique sticker with a slogan that will certainly imprint itself on the target audience’s subconscious. The campaign’s goal is to spur bike riders and sports enthusiasts to become more safety conscious in regards to head protection. headline 8 We strongly believe that advocating for such a worthy cause will help prevent bike riders from suffering a life-altering disability. This campaign will build head injury protection awareness and help British Columbians to be safe. To learn more about this campaign email Greg at [email protected]. Be sure to visit the following websites: www.tbitalks.com, www.cridge.org, and www.braininjuryassociation.com.

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Every year, families search for the perfect holiday activity that provides fun and isn’t expensive. What better way to bring your family, friends and neighbours together than with an evening of singing Christmas carols. It is fun and inexpensive and a great way to kick start the holidays! Here are some ideas to help you get started: • Invite your family, friends and neighbours to join in the fun. Be sure to have at least one adult for every two children. • You will need a set of songs for each caroler. You can gather the songs from your local news papers, or find the words on the internet, print, and place in a sturdy folder for each person. The folders can be made and decorated ahead of time. • Although glowing candles will set the festive tone, for safety reasons, only adults should carry candles. Be sure to use the dripless tapers to prevent burns. Children should carry flashlights. • Dress in warm layers of clothes, including waterproof boots, warm hats, gloves and scarves. It won’t be much fun if you are cold!

• Ask everyone to bring a Santa hat to wear, or to purchase glittery stars from the dollar store and make a wreath to wear on their head. • Finish the night off by gathering in a warm house for hot cocoa and snacks. • Ask everyone to bring their favorite treat to share. Here are a couple of favorites to get you started…
We Wish You a Merry Christmas We wish you a Merry Christmas; We wish you a Merry Christmas; We wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Good tidings to you and your kin; Good tidings for Christmas and a Happy New Year. Oh, bring us a figgy pudding; Oh, bring us a figgy pudding; Oh, bring us a figgy pudding and a cup of good cheer. We won’t go until we get some; We won’t go until we get some; We won’t go until we get some, so bring some out here. We wish you a Merry Christmas; We wish you a Merry Christmas; We wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Frosty the Snowman Frosty the snowman was a jolly happy soul, With a corncob pipe and a button nose And two eyes made out of coal. Frosty the snowman is a fairy tale, they say, He was made of snow but the children Know how he came to life one day. There must have been some magic in that Old silk hat they found. For when they placed it on his head He began to dance around. O, Frosty the snowman Was alive as he could be, And the children say he could laugh And play just the same as you and me. Thumpety thump thump, Thumpety thump thump, Look at Frosty go. Thumpety thump thump, Thumpety thump thump, Over the hills of snow.

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by Larissa Szlavik

It wasn’t until a camping trip to Sombrio beach this summer that I truly could articulate the magic of community. My friend and I set up camp beside two other tents. Not a cloud in the sky, we were absorbing the rare perfection of summer heat by the surf. We opened our space to two people adjacent, each a solo camper. Slowly we warmed up to one another, sitting closer and closer. Eventually we became heavily invested in the other, unknowingly, we created a community. My mother, from a young age, filled my head with fear and worry. Although I resisted, it was impossible for this not to sit heavy in my brain. It took me years to acknowledge times when I experienced anxiety in situations my mother excessively worried about. She never camped, and every time I would inform her of a trip, a cacophony of whines followed: how dangerous the cougars, bears, spiders, and poisonous plants could be. In her world, death is behind every shrub, every doorstep. It’s a miracle she can leave the house. On previous camping trips, there were moments I caught myself being my mother. Scrutinizing each sound, feeling that twang of anxiety at the thought of impending danger. Despite loving the outdoors, and generally not being fearful of the wildlife, my mind would always be on alert; every brush of wind in the leaves would stir me, I rarely rested well. Crummy sleeps would never keep me from camping, and I never investigated why I couldn’t snore the night away like a well-fed cat. Headline is also available in PDF format. If you would like a copy sent to your email address contact Mary Lou by email at: [email protected] Please add Headline to the subject line

My counselor once asked me to question when I am coming from a place of fear, or a place of love. She said this like love is the antidote to fear. That really sat with me. Our four-person Sombrio community was built on love; we shared life stories, were vulnerable, we hugged, we cooked meals together, and sat as pinholes under the stars, each a slightly different viewpoint on life. That was the most restful sleep I had ever had camping; perhaps ever. When I questioned that, something clicked. Because we all connected in that way, it was like being at home. We had each other’s backs. I was protected and loved. Being a Support Worker the concept of community is fundamental. What impact do day-to-day social interactions have? How does being transparent to strangers, so they can see through the other perspective, change the way we care for and treat one another? Community is saying, “We are one”. The latter perspective creates a space of love and compassion. Generally, as people we want to do nice things for those we care about. When we do nice things, we are sharing resources. When everyone is fed, housed, loved and supported, fear is dispelled and we all succeed.

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Happy Birthday, Fred Côté!

Frédéric Côté was born December 5, 1992. He came into this world a bouncing 8.5 lbs. with bright eyes and seemingly to smile at the world. His addictive smile has always been a strong indicator that he was game to try anything. Fred celebrates his twentieth birthday this year. He and his family will not only rejoice the beautiful person he is, but they will also celebrate his courage, determination and commitment to overcoming the challenges that he has endured for the past two years.

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Two years ago, Fred was studying at Kwantlen Polytechnic University in Richmond. He was working part-time in Richmond Mall and enjoyed dating his girlfriend, Charlotte and hanging with his best friend, Ryan Cuthbert. He spoke three languages (French, English & Spanish), and played Midget AAA Baseball and was known for his base running. In fact, he ran so fast he was nicknamed Gazelle. In all respects, Fred was just a regular guy, living a regular life. However, on December 30, 2010, while engaging in what one would think is a harmless arm wrestling match with a buddy, Fred and his family learned he had been born with Arteriovenous Malformation (AVM), a serious condition. AVM is an abnormal connection between veins and arteries that forms before birth. Less than 1% of people are born with this condition. Friend and hero, Steven Thaker took charge and called 9-1-1. Fred and all who love him are forever grateful for his quick response. Fred’s parents, Elisabeth and Jean Pierre (JP) and younger brother, Sébastien, were at home when they got the fateful call around 12:30 a.m. Their son was only a few blocks away at a house party. They assumed Fred was calling for a ride home. Instead they were told to get to Vancouver General Hospital right away. The family learned that Fred heard a “kind of popping in his head” and then said, “I have the worst headache ever… take me to the hospital.” Fred underwent a five hour surgery. This is when the doctor explained to the family about AVM. On New Year’s Eve, Fred underwent a second emergency surgery to remove the “flap bones”

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Moore, (Connect staff), Jean Pierre (JP), Fred’s dad and far right Tez Lemvohee, (physical coach). Cover photo with Fred includes Leanne Carter from Connect. on the left and right sides of his head to release the pressure that was building. Fred remained in a coma in ICU for three weeks. From VGH, Fred was moved to Ponoka, Alberta, for brain injury rehabilitation. He remained there from June 2011 through to December 2011. During his stay in Ponoka, JP and Elisabeth took turns traveling from their home in the lower mainland to Alberta. While one parent was with Fred, the other was with 14-year-old Sébastien. Once Fred completed his rehabilitation in Ponoka, he relocated to Connect Lake Country, which provides both transitional rehabilitation services and residential services. Fred’s family and friends continue to visit with him and be involved with his recovery every step of the way. For example, Sébastian, who has always had a good relationship with his older brother, downloads music for him and when the family Skype with Fred, Sébastien plays his guitar for him. Charlotte is now studying at Concordia University in Montreal; however, she remains in contact with Fred too. “They will remain friends forever,” explains Elisabeth. Fred continues to work very hard at his rehabilitation. Patti Flaherty, Executive Director, shared these thoughts, “Fred is simply amazing. He is fun, easy going and full of curiosity. He reminds us that with lots of time, focused support and continual hope, people can make unexpectedly great results. Fred epitomizes positivity – despite numerous and ongoing challenges he strives forward. He has a fearless spirit and is open to taking smart risks and to be involved in whatever opportunities are open to him. This fearless free spirit helps him to master things that most would not have thought would ever be in his reach. It has been a privilege to be a part of Fred’s journey toward redesigning his life since his injury. He has taught the folks at CONNECT Lake Country so much.” Elisabeth has kept all of Fred’s family and friends up-to-date with his journey by creating a group on Facebook. Amongst the two years of postings, readers will come across the following list, which was posted on March 18, 2011. People were asked to read this before visiting with Fred. It could become the creed for survivors of brain injury:

Photos include left to right Fred’s Mother, Elisabeth, younger brother, Sébastien, Carly

21 THINGS I NEED THE MOST!
1: I am not stupid, I am wounded. Please respect me. 2: Come close; speak slowly, and enunciate clearly. 3: Repeat yourself-assume I know nothing and start from the beginning over and over. 4: Be as patient with me the 20th time you teach me something, as you were the first time. 5: Approach me with an open heart and slow your energy down, take your time. 6: Be aware of what your body language and facial expressions are communicating to me. 7: Make eye contact with me. I am in here-come find me, encourage. 8: Please don’t raise your voice-I’m not deaf, I’m wounded. 9: Touch me appropriately and connect with me. 10: Honor the healing power of sleep. 11: Protect my energy, nervous visitors!!!!!! 12: Ask me questions with specific answers. Allow me time to hunt for an answer. 13: Do not assess my cognitive ability by how fast I can think. 14: Handle me gently, as you would handle a newborn. 15: Speak to me directly, not about me to others. 16: Cheer me on. Expect me to recover completely, even it takes 20 years! 17: Trust that my brain can always continue to learn. 18: Please don’t finish my sentences for me or fill in words I can’t find. I need to work my brain. 19: I may want you to think I understand more than I really do. 20: Remember that in the absence of some functions, I have gained other abilities. 21: Love me for who I am today. Don’t hold me to being the person I was before. To learn more about Fred, join his group at https://www. facebook.com/#!/groups/182113418479365/. To learn about Connect Lake Country, where Fred currently resides, visit www. connectcommunities.ca.

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New Westminster, initiated by the B.C. Brain Injury Association. Over the years we have evolved to a large network of members with representatives in all areas of the Province. As we are neither a business nor a Non-profit Society, we manage to provide a variety of services by dedicating many volunteer hours and invaluable support from our community partners including the ICBC Facilitated Family Support Program. In the past, we provided a support & recreational program for Children of Survivors of Brain Injury, a Mentorship Program, “Pool ‘n Pizza Nite”, maintained an office at G.F. Strong Rehab Centre in which we provided outreach services, a support group specifically for male & female survivors, a discussion group for family members, produced a musical CD of original songs written and performed by Survivors and other programs which followed the needs of our membership. We currently provide facilitated support groups for survivors, family members, friends and caregivers in New Westminster, Surrey, Richmond and Burnaby as well as a monthly education & discussion meeting in which a service provider in the field of Brain Injury presents to the group on a given topic of interest. We also provide a monthly psycho-social based gathering which we have coined as “Friday Frappe Frenzy” where interested members are invited to a local coffee shop to socialize and meet others. Recently, we developed a recreational group where we coordinate a monthly outing. This new group has recently enjoyed adaptive kayaking, mini-golf and a museum tour and carousel ride. We continue to host annual Summer Pot-luck BBQ’s and an annual

Christmas Party where we also solicit donations for food hampers to distribute to our most needy members. As always, we continue to provide outreach, advocacy and resources for our many members. All services are provided free of charge and at all times, energy and supports are given voluntarily. Guidance is gratefully provided by long time associate David Doig from David H. Doig & Associates and our “B.R.A.I.N. Storm – Education & Information Nite” meetings are gratefully co-sponsored by Howe Sound Rehab Services Society’s Headway Centers. Fraser Valley Brain Injury Association has been kind enough to administer any funds provided through ICBC and also offered us discounts in order to attend their invaluable community education workshops. It is our fellow service providers and communities working together that create successful outcomes for our many members. As B.R.A.I.N. is solely a “self- help”, volunteer entity, it is important to take this opportunity to thank each and every one for their dedication and belief in assisting fellow Survivors. Recently an award was received for outstanding service provision; it must be noted that services are rewarding to provide when one has members who are dedicated to recovery, optimistic and courageous. Thanks to “Headline” for their ongoing support and many years of providing a voice for the Provincial Brain Injury community. And, as B.R.A.I.N. enters it’s 14th year we will continue to strive to provide support and understanding to our Brain Injury Survivors, their families, friends and caregivers. We can be contacted via telephone at: 604-5409234, e-mail: [email protected] or our Face book page (Brain Resource, Advocacy & Information Network).

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Do You Know How to Use a Roundabout?
Roundabouts are becoming increasingly popular throughout the world as an effective type of intersection meant to reduce traffic crashes and traffic noise. The rules for pedestrians, cyclists and drivers seem to be fairly simple; however, there is often some doubt on what the protocol for entering and exiting a traffic circle is. This should help. The following information article is available on Transport Canada’s website and also as a downloadable brochure at http://www.tc.gc.ca/eng/roadsafety/tp-tp14787-menu-179.htm. What is a roundabout? A roundabout is an intersection where traffic flows in a counter clockwise circle around a centre island. How Do I Use a Roundabout? Drivers 1. Approach • Reduce your speed. • Watch for signs that may help you find your exit. • Watch for people using the crosswalk, and be ready to stop. 2.Yield • Yield to traffic already in roundabout that comes from your immediate left as before you enter. 3.Enter • Enter the roundabout to your right (a counter clockwise direction) when there is a gap in traffic and you feel it is safe to do so. • Continue until you reach your exit. 4. Exit • Never come to a full stop in a roundabout unless traffic conditions require it.

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• If you miss your exit, keep going around the roundabout until you reach it again. Pedestrians - Cyclists • Cross at marked crosswalks only. You will find them before each road reaches the roundabout. • Use the sidewalk and splitter island to wait for a gap in traffic that allows you time to cross. • Cross one direction of traffic at a time. • Never cross through the centre island. • Ride your bicycle through the roundabout as a motor vehicle. Or •Walk your bike across the crosswalk as a pedestrian. Why Do They Exist? To improve road safety Certain types of collisions that occur in normal intersections such as right-angle and head-on collisions

often cause serious injury because traffic is moving quickly. Roundabouts provide a safer way to direct traffic than intersections with stop signs or traffic lights. Why? Because: •Traffic moves more slowly through the intersection. •There are no left turns in front of oncoming vehicles. To keep traffic moving Roundabouts can direct more traffic in less time than normal intersections. How? Since roundabouts do not have stop signs or traffic lights, traffic moves slowly around the circle. This means fewer stops and delays for drivers. To reduce noise and air pollution Roundabouts improve the quality of life for people living nearby. How? •Slow moving traffic makes less noise than traffic that must stop and start, speed up and brake. •Vehicles don’t idle at stop signs or traffic lights. This means drivers use less gas and fewer idling cars means less exhaust fumes in the air. Source: http://www.tc.gc.ca/eng/roadsafety/tptp14787-menu-179.htm Retrieved August 15

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Reflections
By Janelle Breese Biagioni

“There’s nothing sadder in this world than to awake Christmas morning and not be a child.”
Erma Bombeck (1927-1996), American author and humorist Erma Bombeck was my favorite humorist. She took everyday scenarios and lightened them up with a sprinkling of giggles and good cheer. It didn’t matter the situation, she could make it funny. Behind it all was a willingness to serve in this lifetime by helping others to not take life too seriously. There is no other time of year when the stress odometer is off the charts and we lose our ability to ‘just chill’ than Christmas. I love Christmas and openly admit to being over the top with decorating and entertaining. But I do it because it is true to my spirit – it is who I am. I don’t care if it’s perfect – I care if it’s memorable. My greatest joy at Christmas comes from the activities and interactions with my grandchildren. I have already been reminded that we need to make the reindeer food soon so Rudolph will know where to stop. Every year we plan out a day to make gingerbread houses and to make the nuts and bolts together. It is these things the little ones remember. I highly doubt that either could tell you what they got under the tree from me last year, but they certainly can list off the things we do as a yearly tradition. I pay far more attention to turning my house into a scene reminiscent of a snow globe rather than trying to make the “popular” purchase for those on my list. Shopping isn’t my passion; however, seeking out the ‘best’ gift for the ones I love gives me great joy. But the gift I choose for them is always what I want to give them… it’s what makes me think of them… or exudes who they are. It doesn’t necessarily fall under the top brand names and they are not all expensive. My chosen gifts are what feel right for that person. I do sympathize with kids though, because they are bombarded 24/7 with television commercials telling them what they need to get to be the most popular kid at school. They desperately want the latest video game or ‘hot outfit’ because that is what the marketing gurus tell them they need. On the other hand, kids want the holidays to be memorable too. After it is all said and done, they are looking for the connection, closeness, love and joy that we are all looking for. While children may be the ones to hold the excitement of Christmas in their hearts, it is us, the adults who drive the memory train. Take a look at your family traditions and really celebrate them this year. Revise them if you need to or start new ones – it is never too late. Do your best to make this year a magical adventure!

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Colour Theory
~ Demian Ryefield Ford Seven years ago, I was hit by a car and suffered a brain injury. I spent eight days in a coma. When I woke up, I had to re-learn not only how to walk and talk again, but how to function in many aspects of my life. This re-learning has never stopped. To this day, I sometimes find myself baffled as to how to behave naturally in social situations. Most of my friends tell me this is a normal part of being human. I just don’t remember ever feeling like this before the accident, I don’t remember ever feeling it this strongly. After a three month stay in the hospital, I began visiting the Victoria Brain Injury Society (VBIS) as part of the slow process of bridging back into my life again. This was an incredibly raw and powerful time for me. Through VBIS, I took a course in peer counselling, and began volunteering my time helping other people with brain injuries to bridge back into their lives too. Unexpectedly, playing this supportive role for others helped me to heal myself. My past experiences were mirrored back to me; I felt I could see and be seen in a way that was deeply meaningful. I began developing an understanding of the importance of support: an understanding of my peers being integral to my healing process. Many doctors, nurses, care aid workers, occupational and physical therapists helped me recover after the accident. I look back and see many of these learned and compassionate people like gentle blind people who received diplomas in colour theory. Their understanding, although precise and dedicated with practical applications, was not complete. The community of people in my peer group reflect my experience to me in a language I can understand and reshape myself with. Inside this understanding I’m made more aware of my brain injury and the new person I have become through it. I have learned the importance of grieving the loss of my old self and to celebrate the parts of my spirit that have grown stronger. Within this community, I have found safety, a place for sudden laughter, or tears. I can be myself here. I don’t always encounter that kind of permission in the wider community.

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The healing brain can have intense neuroplasticity, able to reshape and rebuild itself in ways we are only beginning to understand. While the initial intensity does gradually slow as healing progresses, it does not stop. Seven years after my brain injury, I am still passing remarkable milestones. In my experience, this miraculous process is enhanced when people heal within a community that understands their special needs. However, when healing within a community that doesn’t understand those needs, many people recovering from brain injury will experience social disconnection and isolation, with accompanying emotional trauma. A person’s reforming brain can normalize the lack of empathy they receive, as a successful strategy for living within a community that fails to include them. Then the clarity needed to envision their own success, may grow more opaque. There is a truth about disability: when that disability is truly understood and included by our communities, it ceases to be a disability. Next fall, I graduate from college; it will have taken me four years to complete a two year diploma. Next, I’m entering a Social Work program in university. I look forward to working with people with brain injuries, to help them understand a culture that has only just begun to understand them. I am so grateful that I have the opportunity to pay some of my gifts back.

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A Tummy Warming Meal of Soup and Biscuits
There is something about cold weather that beckons a delicious pot of homemade soup and biscuits for dinner. Given it is the holiday season there will be plenty of leftover turkey and vegetables to turn into a yummy soup. Add biscuits, a small salad and fresh fruit and your dinner is ready! Here are two recipes to enjoy: In bowl, whisk flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Using pastry blender or 2 knives, cut in butter until in coarse crumbs. In small bowl, whisk buttermilk with egg; add to flour mixture and stir with fork to make soft dough. With lightly floured hands, press dough into ball. On lightly floured surface, knead gently 10 times. Pat into 3/4-inch (2 cm) thick round. Using 2-1/2-inch (6 cm) floured round cutter, cut out rounds. Place on prepared baking sheet. Bake in centre of 400°F (200°C) oven until golden, 12 to 15 minutes. (Make-ahead: Let cool. Store in airtight container for up to 1 day or wrap individually in plastic wrap and freeze in airtight container for up to 2 weeks.)
Source: http://www.canadianliving.com/food/baking_and_desserts/ buttermilk_biscuits.php

Buttermilk Biscuits

The Canadian Living Test Kitchen These buttermilk biscuits are soft, buttery and sure to start your day off right. They’re also a great makeahead dough to keep in the freezer for an easy weekend brunch. Ingredients • 2-1/2 cups all-purpose flour (625mL) • 2 tbsp granulated sugar (30 mL) • 2-1/2 tsp baking powder (10 mL) • 1/2 tsp baking soda (2 mL) • 1/2 tsp salt (2 mL) • 1/2 cup cold butter, cubed1(125 mL) • cup buttermilk 1 (250 mL) • 1 egg

Preparation Line rimless baking sheet with parchment paper, or grease; set aside.

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KAMLOOPS BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION (KBIA) KBIA offers many services and programs, including case coordination and life skills support. For more information, call at 250-372-1799. NANAIMO BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (NBIS) NBIS offers rehabilitation and case management services, disability benefits assistance, and workshops focusing on issues ranging from trauma recovery to life skills strategies and anger management. For more information, call 250-753-5600 or visit their website at www.nbid.ca. POWELL RIVER BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (PRBIS) PRBIS www.braininjurysociety.ca provides support and services for persons with acquired brain injury, spouses, family members and caregivers included. For more information, call 604-485-6065 or toll free 1-866-499-6065. NORTH OKANAGAN-SHUSWAP BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (NOSBIS) Please take note: Our email addresses have changed to: [email protected] and [email protected]. Please make the necessary changes in your address books. Contact us for information on programs and services. SOUTH OKANAGAN SIMILKAMEEN BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (SOSBIS) SOSBIS provides the following services: Case Management, Psychosocial Recreation, Peer Support – Cognitive Enhancement, Family Support, Stroke Recovery Support, Education, Personal Support, Women’s Support and Prevention and Education. For more information, visit www.sosbis.com TRI-CITIES BRAIN INJURY SUPPORT GROUP As months have gone by, Tri-Cities Brain Injury Support Group continues to have its meetings every 1st Thursday of each month from 2 - 4 pm. At our meetings, friends get together and discuss interesting topics and do fun activities. We meet at the Coquitlam Public Library - Poirier Branch on 575 Poirier Street. For more information, please contact Sandi Caverly at 604916-5027 or [email protected] or Martin Granger at martin_ [email protected]. New members are welcome! VICTORIA BRAIN INJURY SOCIETY (VBIS) VBIS offers individual and group programs to survivors and their support system. Programs offered include: Peer Support, ABI 101, Coping Skills, Personal Enhancement, Creative Arts, a Family Support Group and Education & Awareness seminars to community groups. For more information call 250-598-9339 or visit www.vbis.ca.

BRAINTRUST CANADA BrainTrust Canada will host the 2013 Okanagan Conference on Brain Injury, June 13 -14th at the University of British Columbia – Okanagan Campus. For more information on the conference and programs offered by BrainTrust Canada, please call (250) 762-3233 or visit www.braintrustcanada.com. BULKLEY VALLEY BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION (BVBIA) BVBIA offers case management services, and assistance with accessing rehabilitation programs, one-on-one emotional support, family support, and social and recreational activities. For more information, call 250-877-7723. CAMPBELL RIVER HEAD INJURY SUPPORT SOCIETY (CRHISS) CRHISS provides education, advocacy, support, and fellowship. For more information, call 250-287-4323. COMOX VALLEY HEAD INJURY SOCIETY (CVHIS) CVHIS welcomes Cathy Stotts as the new Executive Director. CVHIS hosts a weekly drop in luncheon for a nominal cost to survivors and their families. For more information, call 250-3349225 or visit, www.cvheadinjury.com. FRASER VALLEY BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATION (FVBIA) FVBIA is hosting its Fifth Annual Pathway to Hope Gala on Saturday, March 30, 2013 at Northview Golf and Country Club. For more information call 604-557-1913 or (toll free) 1-866-5571913 or email [email protected]. HOWE SOUND REHABILTATION SERVICES SOCIETY Howe Sound Rehabilitation Services Society is hosting the Sea to Sky Aphasia Camp from September 14 – 16, 2012. To receive more information on updates regarding details about the camp call 604-936-9944 or email [email protected]
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Two weeks between paydays can seem like an eternity for many a wage earner. When it is so hard for folks with a job to survive with only 2 paydays a month why is it that we expect the folks with the smallest monthly income to make it for 4 or sometimes 5 weeks between paydays?

Prince George Brain Injured Group THE BIG BANK

WELCOME TO THE BIG BANK!!! PG BIG has teamed up with our bank to help survivors manage their limited finances. 1.Cheque cashing: If you don’t have an account banks charge a fee to cash a cheque, usually in the $5 range, if they’ll cash it at all! Not so with our local CIBC. With one piece ID and a “Survivor ID Card”, which almost all 300 members of PG BIG carry, our members can cash government or PG BIG cheques without charge.

cheques to pay their bills as part of their money management program. Other survivors are also welcome to use this service for paying bills too. A survivor can deposit the exact amount needed to pay a bill and we will send a client account cheque to the supplier. We’ll also keep records of payments made in the survivor’s file for later reference. It works exactly the same if the survivor needs to make a purchase over the internet; for example ordering a birth certificate on-line is way faster & less expensive than doing the same thing by mail. By paying the exact amount needed in advance BIG will use the BIG Visa account to place the order. 5.Loans: No matter how carefully you manage your money there are times when a short term loan can make a huge difference in a person’s life. When an emergency hits survivors are welcome to borrow up to $20 from the BIG loan fund. It’s not much but when you’re on a limited income you don’t want to get too far behind anyway. The total available in our micro-loan kitty is only $100 but that $100 cycles around and around, working for the people who need it, over and over and over again. In the 10 + years it’s been in existence that $100 has bought hundreds of jugs of milk, enough cold medication to scare off a plague, gas to get at least as far as Vancouver and back and thousands upon thousands of cell phone minutes. Most importantly, that $100 has bought relief and peace of mind, over & over again!

2.Account fees: Fees can be pretty hefty and many survivors just can’t afford them. For the BIG Client Account our bank forgives most fees and BIG pays the few that remain. Survivors who use the service pay nothing. 3.Money Management: Survivors who are working with their case manager on a money management plan (& those who have progressed beyond this) have access to BIG’s Client Account. The survivor deposits cash or government cheque & receives their money back in the form of cheques which they cash at our bank, at no charge of course. Most folks take a larger sum once a month and then a weekly payment. Many begin to accrue a few dollars as savings for emergencies or ‘treats’.

“In the past few months I’ve borrowed money to buy formula and diapers for my 9 month old son. Now I’ve learned how to manage my money & stock up and prepare for him all the time. It’s still tough but I don’t know how I could have managed without the loan fund in those first months.”
“The BIG bank helped me to learn how to save money. I would spend it if I didn’t have the BIG Bank. I’d cheat on myself. Now I’ve saved money and can go on a trip for my birthday

4.Bill paying: Few suppliers accept cash payments on bills anymore. Your cablevision or hydro bill must be paid by cheque or Visa – pretty tough if you don’t have a chequing account or a credit card. BIG survivors who participate as regular depositors to the Client Account have access to Client account

In 2011 survivors deposited and withdrew more than $70,000 through our Client Account! We spend a good deal of staff time managing the account but staff and survivors alike (including those who don’t use the account!) believe that this is one of the most important services we provide. Rehabilitation and the rebuilding of a life after brain injury is as much about regaining control of the ordinary things in life as it is about understanding the ‘new me’ and developing memory aids!

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BC BRAIN INJURY ASSOCIATIONS &
*This list updated Winter Issue, 2012.
Abbotsford Acquired Brain Injury Society of the Yukon Alberni Valley Head Injury Society/Port Alberni Barriere/Merritt British Columbia Brain Injury Association Brain Trust Canada Brain Trust Canada - Vernon Contact Bulkley Valley Brain Injury Association Burnaby Chinese Brain Injury Support Group Campbell River Head Injury Support Society Caribou Brain Injury Society Chilliwack Comox Valley Head Injury Society East Kootenay Brain Injury Association Fraser Valley Brain Injury Association Golden East Kootenay Brain Injury Association Kamloops Brain Injury Association KBIA - Barriere/Merrit Contact Langley/Aldergrove Brain Injury Support Group Maple Ridge Support Group Mission Nanaimo Brain Injury Society New Westminster Headway B.R.A.I.N. (Brain Resource, Advocacy & Information Network) North Okanagan Shuswap Brain Injury Society (Salmon Arm/Shuswap) Northern Brain Injury Association Peace Country Society for Acquired Brain Injury Powell River Brain Injury Society Prince George Brain Injured Group Society Sechelt/Sunshine Coast Brain Injury Support Group Semiahmoo House Society Acquired Brain Injury Services South Okanagan Similkameen Brain Injury Society Terrace Brain Injury Support Group TriCities Support Group Vancouver Headway Vancouver Survivors Support Group Victoria Brain Injury Society West Coast Support Network West Kootenay Brain Injury Association

Support Groups
604-557-1913 867-668-5283 250-724-6772 250-372-1799 604-465-1783 250-762-3233 250-307-6064 250-877-7723 604-877-8606 250-287-4323 250-392-7772 604-557-1913 250-334-9225 250-417-6220 604-557-1913 250-344-5674 250-372-1799 250-372-1799 604-557-1913 604-944-9030 604-557-1913 250-753-5600 604.520.0130 604-540-9234 250-833-1140 1-866-979-4673 250-782-7519 1-866-499-6065 250-564-2447 604-885-8524 604-592-1006 250-490-0613 1-866-979-4673 604-916-5027 604.732.4446 604-873-2385 250-598-9339 250-726-7459 250-304-1259 Local 230 TF 1-866-564-2447 TF 1-866-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913 TF 1-866-557-1913

Carol Paetkau Anne-Marie Yahn Linda Kenny Terry-Lynne Stone Deborah St. Jean Laurie Denton Marcie McLeod Joan LeClair Angela Kan Shelley Howard Stacy Turcotte FVBIA Cathy Stotts Karen Stermer Carol Paetkau Debbie Gudjonson Terry-Lynn Stone Terry-Lynn Stone FVBIA Ian Moore FVBIA Mark Busby Gabrielle Pape Tina Suter Robyn Coatta Carmen Jose Linda Proctor Deborah Dee Alison Hagreen Susan Goddard Office Dave Head NBIA Sandy Caverly Leah Pentilla Lillian Wong Helen Lang Wanda McAvoy Kelly Johnson

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