can not rely on Lois to tell me about you and your health" I just can not. I really need someone
rcliable to tell me about you and your health. I hope you know that I can and will come down to help
you ir a heart beat. I really hope you understand ttrat grandpa. I can't call you everyday like I would
like to. I hope you uoderstand that I will fly down to assist you Althorrgh I can not drive, I do not
work a full time job so I have the tirne available to assist you aad your needs. I know that you need
me. I just want you to know that at thistime in our lives, I can and will be more than a grandson to
you. I have done care giving a few years ago and know what is ueeded to assist you. I know that my
mother would be there to assist you in a hcart beat. I want tlrat same understanding with you. I also
know if you had any other children or grandchildrerl they would have the sfine concern ahut you.
Do you have someone like one of our other relatives that I can have contact with. Can you give me a
number to another relative in the familf. P]ease.
Love Brian
916-247-7736
Allancoh I Z3@olcom wrote:
Dear Brian
Yes I received your mail and thank you.
Lois is back in Ca., aod she left me with nicely preparded foo{ did all the laundry, ironing,
claaned tbe aparhent and drove me to the shopping cetrter for a few items we forgot.
Right now is not a good time for us to spend time together. I still see several doctors and
need space to mom my beloved wife. If Lois does not return I will need someone
who can drive, cook special meals, help bah me aod rnore.
As soon asl things get better I will call you to set a date. Keep calling and writing and tell me
all the deals you are doing. If I get too sick to writs etc.,
Lois or someore will let you know"
Love you dear man.
Grandpa