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k«kViolatekPar inson skLawkforkFinancialkAbundancekkkkThekMythkofkThin ingkBigk»k»k HowktokGivekakGreatkSpeech By:kBriankKimk-kJulyk24,k2006k Ifkyou'rekakfirstktimekvisitor,kIkhighlykencouragekyouktokclic kherektoklearnkmo rekaboutkthisksitektokseekhowkitkcankTRULYkchangekyourklifekli eknokotherksitekc ankandkhowkmillionskaroundkthekworldkarekalreadykbenefitingkandkgettingkthekVERY kBESTkVALUEkoutkofkit!kThan kyoukforkvisiting!k Ikthin keverykonekofkuskdreamskofksomedaykgivingkTHATkONEkSPEECH.kYouk nowkexact lykwhatkspeechkI'mktal ingkabout.k Thekonekwherekyoukarekstandingkonkstage,ksupremelykconfidentkinkyourk nowledgeka ndkflawlesskdelivery.kThekonekwithknokstutterskandknokaw wardkpausesktryingktokr ememberkwhatktoksayknext.kThekonekwithknobodykinkthekaudiencekloo ingkaroundkork chec ingktheirkwatchkorkwonderingkwhatktheykshouldkeatkforkdinner.kThekonekwhere kyourkvoicekdoesknotksha ekwithkfearkandkyourkgestureskareknotkaw wardkandkforce d.kThekonekspeechkwherekatkthekendkofkit,kthekaudiencekgiveskakthunderingkapplau sek(notkthekstandardkapplause,korkthekhalf-heartedkapplause,korkthekpitykapplaus e),kbutkthekgeniunek100%kcertifiedkgradekAk"Wekmostkdefinitelyklovedkyourkspeech kandkwekwantktokshowkit"kapplause.kThat'skTHEkspeechkI'mktal ingkabout.k DuringkmyktimekatkUCLA,klearningkhowktokgivekakgreatkspeechkli ekthatkwaskonekof kthekthingskIkwantedktokdo.kIktal edkwithkfriendskwhokhadkta enkthekregularkSpee chk101kclasseskthatkUCLAkoffered,kbutktheirkreviewskaboutkitkweren'tkthatkglowin gktoksaykthekleast.k Thenkonekday,kwhilekbrowsingkforkclassesktokregister,kIkstumbledkonkankobscureks peechkclasskburiedkdeepkwithin.kIkbelievekitkwaskcalledkOralkCommunicationkorkso methingktokthatkeffect.kWhatksurprisedkmekwaskthatkitkwaskfiledkunderkMathkandkS ciencekdepartmentk(maybekitkwaskMathkorkSciencekdepartment,knotkmathkandkscience ,kbutkIkdigress).kThekpointkIkwantktokma ekiskthatkitkwasn'tkfiledkunderktheksam ekdepartmentkaskthekregularkSpeechkclasseskwere.k What'skmore,kthekclasskmaximumksizekwaskextremelyksmallk(Ikthin k10kpeople),kwhi chkmeantkindividualkonekonkonektimekwithkthekprofessor,kaskopposedktokthekhugekr egularkspeechk101kclasses,kwherekyoukwereka inktokakgrainkofksandkonkakbeach.k Thekprofessork(IkapologizekprofuselykforkforgettingkyourknamekProfessorkaskIkamk horriblekwithknameskandkthat'skwhatkIkgetkforkcallingkyoukthekgenericktitlekofkP rofessorkallkthektimek:))kconsultedkwithktopkexecutiveskinkfortunek500kcompanies kandkhelpedkthemktokovercomekfearkofkpublickspea ingkandkgavekrealkgenuinekadvic ekonkhowktokgivekakgreatkspeech.k Thekcoolkthingkaboutkthiskclasskwaskthatkitkofferedkakwholeknewkparadigmkofkpubl ickspea ingk(atkleastkitkdidktokmekandktokthekotherkpeoplekinkmykclass).k Thekconceptskweklearnedkinkclasskwereksokgoodkthatktheykhelpedkpeoplekinkmykclas skwhokhadkstrongkforeignkaccents,k(whichkmadektheirkEnglishkhardktokunderstand), kgivekgreatkspeeches.k Ikadmit,kIkwasks epticalkuntilkthiskonekguy,kwhosekthic kAsiankaccentkmadekitkpr ettykhardktokunderstandkhiskEnglish,k(butkbyklearningkthesek eykpoints),kwaskabl ektokgivekakterrifickspeechkonknanotechnology.kDespitekhiskaccent,khekmadekankex tremelykcomplexksubjectkveryksimplektokunderstandkandkgotkhiskmessagekacrosskver ykeffectively.kMykclassmateskandkIkwerekblownkawaykandkitkwasktrulykinspiring,kt oksaykthekleast.k
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mberkyourkhighkschool'skvaledictoriankspeech?),kwithoutkevenkrealizingkit,kandkw ithoutk nowingkthatkitk indkofkshutskpeople'skmindskoffkthekinstancektheykdetect kit,k(unlessktheykarekreallykreallykreallykreallykinterestedkinkwhatkyoukhavekto ksay).k Killkthekbroadcast.kOpenkupkthekconversationkandkinvitekthekaudiencekin.k KeykPointk#3:kP.R.E.Pk No,kitkdoesn'tkmeankprep,kalthoughkthat'sksomethingkyoukshouldkcertainlykdo.k P.R.E.Pkstandskfor:k Pkointk Rkeasonk Ekxamplek Pkointk Mostkaudiencekmemberskwillkonlykrememberkonekorktwok eykpointskfromkakspeech.k Theksadkthingkiskthatkmostkpeoplektendktokramblekonkandkonkandkonkandkonkandkonk inktheirkspeecheskwhilekallkthekwhilekthekaudiencekiskthin ingk"What'skthekpoint ?kGetktokthekfrea inkpoint!kYou'rekallkoverkthekfrea inkplace.kIkdon'tk nowkwhat kyou'rektryingktktoktellkme.kArrrrggghhh.kI'mkjustkgoingktokthin kaboutkwhatkIks houldkeatkforkdinner."k Tokavoidkthis,ktryktok eepkyourkpointksimplekbyksayingkitkinkoneksentence.k(P)k Whenkpeoplekhearkyourkpoint,ktheirknextknaturalkthoughtkisk"why?".k Youkmustksatisfyktheirkthoughtkbykprovidingkakgoodkreason.k(R)k Thenkyoukgivekaksimplekexamplektokillustratekyourkpoint.k(E)k Studieskhavekshownkthatkpeoplekwillkrememberkthekexampleskinkthekspeechkandkusek thatkaskaklin ktokrememberkthekpointkofkthekspeechk(tortoisekandkthekharek-keasy kexamplekthatkeveryonekrememberskandkthekpointkiskeasilykextractedkfromkthekexam ple).kSokchoosekakgoodkexample.k Thenkreiteratekyourkpointkforkgoodkmeasure.k(P)k Includekatkthekmostk3kP.R.E.Ps.kIfkpossible,ktryktokcutkdownktheknumberkofkpoint sktokonekorktwokinkyourkspeechkbecausekthekaveragekaudiencekmemberkwillkonlykrem emberkonekorktwokthingskfromkyourkspeech.k Whenkpreparingkyourkspeech,k eepkthesekpointskandkexamplesksimpleksokyou'rekaudi encekwillkfullykcomprehendkyourkmessage.kAkgoodkacronymkmykprofessorkusedkforkth iskiskK.I.S.Sk(Keepkitksuperksimple).k You'llkfindkthatkifkyoukusekthisksimplekP.R.E.Pkformula,kthekaudiencekwillkeasil ykbekablektokrecollectkthekmainkpointskofkyourkspeech,kwhichkisksomethingkverykr arekforkaudienceskinkgeneral.k KeykPointk#4:kLetkitkLandk Sometimes,kwekmaykbeksokeagerktokgetkourkmessagekacrosskthatkwekspea kfasterktha nkakhighkschoolkgirlksittingkwithkherkfriendskonkaklunchktablekwithkthekjuiciest
kpiecekofkgossipktokhitkthekschoolkinkwee s.k Whenkyoukspea ,kletkitkland.kPausekafterkeachksentence.kLetkitksin kin.kLoo katk thekaudiencektokgaugekwhetherkyoukarekspea ingktookfast.kYouk nowkjustkaskwellka skIkdokthatkifkyoukhavektok eepkupkyourkcomprehensionkwithkthekspea er'skfastkra tekofkspeech,kyou'llkswitchkoffkandkforgetkaboutkit,kaskitkiskwayktookmuchkwor . k Letkitkland.k KeykPointk#5:kKnowkYourkMaterialk(a akPractice)k Knowkyourkmaterial.kInsidekout.kYes,kit'skcliche.kYeskyouk nowkit.kYeskIkdon'tkh avektoktellkyou,kbutkI'mkstillkgoingkto.kKnowkyourkmaterial.kInsidekout.kKnowkit kinkyourksleep.kKnowkitkinkthekshower,kinkyourkcar,kwhenkyou'rekwor ingkout.kBek surekofkit.kBekroc ksolid.kKnowkyourkmaterial.kKnowkitksokwellkthatkyoukdon'tkev enkneedktokbringkaklinekbyklinektranscriptionkofkyourkspeech.kJustkakbriefkoutli ne,kaskshownkatkthekendkofkthiskarticle.kThiskiskjustkthekultimatekconfidencekbo oster.kKnowkyourkmaterialkandkyoukwillk noc kyourkownksoc skoff.k KeykPointk#6:kVisualizek Yeskyou'vekheardkaboutkthiskaskwell.kEverykboo ,kteacher,kandkspea erkrecommends kthiskpracticekandkyouk nowkwhy?kIt'skbecausekitkwor s.kIkwillkpostkankarticleko nkvisualizationkinktheknearkfuturekthatkwillkgokinkdepthkasktokwhykitkwor s,kbut kforknow,k nowkthatkitkwor s.k Getkaklayoutkofkthekplacekwherekyoukwillkbekgivingkyourkspeech.kStandkonkstageka ndkpicturekthekaudience.kVisualizekyourselfkgivingkTHATkONEkspeech,kandknailingk it,kandkhavingkthekaudiencekgivekyoukthunderouskapplauseskandkgenuinekcommentska fterward.kEnvisionkitkconstantlykandkfeelkthekjoy,khearkthekapplause,kseekyourse lfkinkyourkeyeskgivingkthekspeech,kfeelingkthekconfidence,klayingkoutktheksimple kpointskandkexamples,kseeingktheirkheadsknodkinkunderstandmentkandkagreement,ket c.kYoukwillkfindkthatkyourkvisualizationskwillkcomektrue.k ThekWholekPac agek Sokhere'skthekbasickoutlinekofkyourkspeech.k Introk-kLi ektheyksay,kusekankattentionkgrabbingkintro.kUsekakfunnykanecdote,kor ksomethingkyouknoticedkinkgeneral,korkwhateverkyoukcankcomekupkwith.kIkleavekthi skupktokyourkcreativekmind.kCasekinkpoint,kgetktheirkattentionksokyoukcanktellkt hemkabout:k Pointk#1:kMykpointkis...WhatkI'mktryingktoksaykis....etc..k Rk Ek Pk Pointk#2k Pk Rk Ek
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