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I just bought your book and have read it three times about seducing a married
woman and I have a question for you because I am in a very unique and different
situation.
A few bullet points: I'm 41, live in la, I'm a successful guy who has a fair amount
of girls interested in me (don't get me wrong I'm no Brad Pitt, though)
So.. about 8 months ago my best girlfriend introduced me to her good girlfriend.
and BAM..it was like lightening in a bottle. everyone felt it. we just blocked out the
room the whole night as we talked....well, she has been married for 9 years and
is from Poland. she married this guy (short, mean, controlling etc) half out of
staying in America and half because they became close friends at work. she is
now 7 months form her "freedom" when she becomes a legal citizen.
Anyway, we've sporadically stayed in touch and the last few months we've been
texting, emailing and have hung out 4-5 times: walking dogs, lunch, etc. i have
never been in a sexual situation with her but we flirt and drink wine at lunch and
talk fairly openly. ill say something like I WAKE UP AND GO FOR A SWIM ON
MY ROOFTOP and she will say OH, I FORGOT YOU HAVE APOOL WE
SHOULD GO SWIMMING ILL BRING THE WINE...or YOU ARE A MEMBER OF
THAT CLUB? YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME THERE OR DO YOU KNOW WHERE
THE SECRET WATERFALL IS? YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME THERE...BUT
WHEN I ASK HER TO ACTUALLY DO ANY OF THOSE THINGS SHE
SOMETIMES NEVER GETS BACK TO OR MAKES THE PLANS VERY WISHY
WASHY OR MAKES ME ASK 3 TIMES BEFORE I GET AN ANSWER. ITS
CONFOUNDING..
Her friend told me she is a very very sensual person and passionate and isn't
having sex with her guy for awhile but does not cheat. what she does is have
revolving crushes weekly OH HES SO HOT...HES THIS HES THAT (I WAS ONE
A FEW MONTHS AGO)
The other night i happened to see her out and walked her to her car and i said to
her..where did you get your beautiful brown eyes...and she said from my
dad...you remind me of him...and i said...is that good or bad..and she
said...good...i love my dad...he's rad.
So...im just not sure what to do here? im very very attracted to her sexually and
as a person. she's actually a person id like to date but would also looove to just
meet in hotel rooms and make the world stop...but cant seem to get to that level.
the way she acts around me it would be hard for me to believe she isn't in to me
but then again maybe i'm just a ego boost or...im not sure. she says she wants to
do all these things but it is hard to get her to do them.
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heeelp?
Do you think it would up my sexual value if she saw me with another woman??
oh also when we meet she kisses me on the cheek and when we part a peck on
the lips....
Any advice here would be very appreciated.
Hey [Gary]
Any time there is 'this type' of relationship (no serious dating, no commitment) +
she's not really hiding other guys from you + she could perceive you as overpursuing (hard to say)...
...it would be massively beneficial (from an SV standpoint) for her "see" or hear
about you with other women...in fact, it's almost a must...along with other things...
As far as building SV, I get the impression you have enough of that covered,
seeing you with another woman will get her thinking about you more, however,
the missing link is probably a "strong connection" in your case...that's going to
seal the deal...
Based on what you have explained, you should be able to EASILY build sexual
desire in her and have her crazy over you...
Again, you remind her of her dad...number 2, she's been in a meaningless
relationship with mean and controlling guy for 9 years. She's starving for a "real
connection".
As a connection building strategy, demonstrate that you understand key things
about her like:
What makes her special/unique (from her perspective).
What does she love? (passion, hobbies, interests)
What is it that she's proud of (accomplishments, skills, talents,
experiments)
What's her outlook/philosophies? (about life, about relationships)
Also, try to be the best listener she's ever experience and show her that you're
fascinated with her "life story".
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Also... and this may sound conflicting but don't make her out to be a "big deal"
yet at the same time really convince yourself (if you have to) that you're
fascinated with her...
If she thinks your current attraction to her is based purely on looks that's not
going to be enough...
So the attitude is kind of like a ongoing silent message to her that says: "ok.. not
bad... you're starting to impress me.", but not because how hot she is or any
"numb" over-signal [something she's heard a million times].
When you look at the "3 Dimensions of desirability" (sexual value + building a
connection + making her feel good), at various points in a woman's life she's
going to be STARVING for one area more than the others based on who she is
and/or what she is currently experiencing...
That's very important to know!
Much of your success is going to be based on what she is looking for? What she
desires? What does she want from a guy? What are her beliefs about
guys/sex/relationships?
In you case (based on what you said) she's not likely to be in a rush to be tied
down...She described her husband as controlling, so she's going to be hypersensitive to any "perceived pushiness"...
So the "jealousy" thing could work... I could see that having a huge impact...the
focus should be more on some hard core "connection building" along with
"allowing her to see a more complete-you emerge (one who is interested in
knowing about her, connecting with her, listening to her, etc)....if you can do that,
than you should be able to attract you - no doubt about it...
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Hey CR,
I purchased Red Bubbles [GetHerBackFast.com] yesterday, fascinating stuff, lots
of those aha moments!
I have been trying for a while now to get a certain woman back into my life, read
loads of stuff, some good, some bad. I think I've been quite close on occasions,
but as yet haven't been quite able to pull it off, it's become quite a challenge but I
don't like to be beaten.
I have developed a real interest in psychology and really enjoy and gain a lot
from reading your reports.
Anyway, I read Red Bubbles and thought, nothing to lose, I haven't spoken to her
for more than a week so I quite simply fired off a long text message to her
(unlikely she would pick up a call) tackled a few of those red bubbles, [did
something mentioned in the Red Bubbles report].
In the middle of the text I casually dropped in the line [another RB strategy].
I got no response from her last night but then the strangest thing! I got a text this
afternoon from her at work, quite unusual, she's normally far too busy at work to
text. She apologized for not replying but claimed to have only just got the text,
blaming it on her phone, but I know she received it last night. She ended it 'talk
later.xx' What do you make of that??
Spooky stuff, will let you know how it goes, have to go back and read it again
now.
I think I've made an excellent investment, if not for now, but definitely for the
future.
Many thanks,
[Jeff]
Hey [Jeff]
Glad to read your email my friend...
That's an extremely good sign as you probably suspect. Women can be
incredibly vague as I'm sure you've experienced. lol. So yeah, it's a definitely
(without a doubt) a good sign.
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Hi CR
Thank you for replying. Needless to stay I'm still waiting for her 'to talk' :)
I have a question for you, and I would be really grateful for your take on this. I
should say that we are both in our early fifties!
The woman I am with (sometimes) was in an emotionally abusive marriage which
ended seven years ago, she finally walked out. A really bad break, lots of fights,
the typical 'If I can't have you nobody else will', all the normal crap women get
from this type of idiot.
The problem is this guy just won't leave it, even though he moved another victim
in straight after the split. They have two grown up children between them and a
two year old grandson, so they have to maintain some limited contact, although
there is nothing amicable about it. In fact this guy uses this as way of trying to
undermine any confidence she has in herself, in other words, he is still trying to
control her (and succeeding).
I know you would probably say 'run away, and don't look back' but I'm not ready
to throw in the towel yet, I see great things in this woman, although I know she
doesn't see them herself.
My question is this: Do you think it's possible that the 'Red Bubble' in her head
has actually been created by him, and that every time he acts up (and we're
going through one of those phases right now) that bubble becomes so large that
that's all she can concentrate on and that everything else (including me) no
longer exists in her world.
Am I creating another 'Red Bubble' by trying to maintain some contact with her
whilst she deals with his nonsense. And if so, is there something I can say to her
to remove my 'Red Bubble'.
Thanks
[Jeff]
Hey [Jeff]
I wouldn't say run away. If you have the belief that you can make things work and
you're willing to do what it takes, then go for it.
As far as the red bubble being created by him, I think that's very possible. Based
on what you are saying, it's a case (much like you probably suspect) where the
size of the bubble changes based on her changing feelings/perceptions about
him.
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In most cases, doing things to become more desirable (whether it's in the context
of getting a woman back, getting her to be attracted to you the first time, or
getting a current partner to be more intimate) is a matter of sending a higher
percentage of signals that she finds to be attractive.
When everything is normal, that's what you're up against.
If there is a situation whether the bubble is created by him....or more specifically,
he controls how she perceives other guys, then it's pretty much the same
situation as if she was in a relationship with him (even though she may not label
it as that).
It's like a woman who is madly in love with her husband. The strategy (for an
outside guy) that would have worked while she was single doesn't work any
more.
Your situation could be along those lines.
As far as what you can say, I believe (to accomplish what you're tying to
accomplish) it would require a series of conversations - because I'm not sure if
she's "one conversation" away from breaking away from the mental hold that he
has on her.
After (and only after) she's at a point where she's really comfortable with talking
to you, you should put the game plan in motion - having a series of conversations
that accomplishes a "formula" of things.
1. Getting her to talk about what she doesn't like about him. why she doesn't
think he's right for her?
2. Building her up. giving her compliments. getting her to see herself as a strong
person. getting her to see herself in a better way. (the only reason a person
allows others to treat them disrespectfully is because she doesn't respect
herself....so if you get her to respect herself more, then automatically she'll began
to devalue anyone who attempts to disrespect her.)
3. Build your value + build the connection (get her to see you as someone she
has a unique/special bond)
I hope that helps [Jeff]. I really hope things work out for you my friend...
Take Care. (keep me posted)
Warmly
CR
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Hi Instructor CR,
It really has been reading your Levels of Communication free report.. I am having
quite a revelation! I am reading through your free newsletter starting with the
mega-issue to enhance my life.
However, I was getting intrigued about you mentioned that you once helped one
man to seduce someone's wife, while the man convinced you he had a good
purpose. So you develop a game plan for him. And he win but hadn't claim his
price (what a dork).
Now say that there is one good, caring, loving husband (with good sexual value)..
But someone (as skilled as you Instructor CR James are) wants to seduce this
poor man's wife.. Maybe because he knew their son will be combination of
Einstein, Mozart and Da Vinci (whatever reason, he just want THIS particular
woman).
Imagine, he with such great skill want to get this wonderful woman.
Now let's say this husband is decently a man (maybe had read and practiced
your stuff), but someone else (like, say, you yourself) want to seduce his wife.
Is there any defense? You have way higher skills, and you can develop super
bombastic game plan to get his wife.
Anything this poor husband can do?
This is actually my friend's question when I shared with him what the necessity of
what I've learned from dating sciences. He said that if the seduction game truly
work like this charm, all of us must be aware that someone with higher skill can
steal our woman at anytime. Well logically that makes quite some sense to me.
And if this is the case, I might sign up for private tutor from all seduction masters,
mind you.
Thank you for reading, and I just want to hear your opinion about it.
Regards,
[Kevin]
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Hey [Kevin]
Lol. Interesting question. I love the scenario...
Yeah there's a defense. If the relationship is strong/perfect (in the mind of the
woman) which by default means she's with a guy who "amazing" (from her
perspective) + she doesn't have any major personality exploits (being naive,
having low will power [self control], etc.), then it becomes extremely difficult even
for a skilled guy.
Chances are she'll never cross the path of a Super Skilled Guy.
And even still, he's not really a threat.
The guy who is the real threat is the Super Skilled Guy With Patience Who
Targets Her!!
That's who the husband should concern himself with...(of course, he doesn't
have a concept of a Super Skilled Guy).
He thinks: "She married me. I'm safe. Women never cheat."
The Super Skilled Guy With Patience is the guy who spends an enormous
amount of time systematically unraveling her perceptions - that her husband isn't
right for her...among other things...
(As a side note: I've talked to hundreds of guys who wanted me to help them
repair an aspect of their relationship and in the process I'll ask the guy questions
about her [what's her biggest dream/fantasy....what is proud of...what does she
enjoy doing...etc] and often times, the guy doesn't even know.)
Imagine for a second: A wife talking to a male co-worker who takes the time to
not only learn everything little thing about her, but he compliments her and
encourages her to follow a dream, etc. Let's just say he encourages her to write
poetry. When she writes something exciting, who is she going to show it to? Let's
say he gives a compliment about her poetry style and creativity, what kind of
connection is that going to build? When he encourages and challenges to enter
the poem into an online contest and she WINS!!! first place, who is she going to
tell first? (Keep in mind, this is just basic stuff. He doesn't have to insult the
husband. He doesn't even have to bring him up. Now imagine, if they're having
problems. Now imagine if the co-worker is just pounding her with impact
moments like this over and over and over again - month after month after month.
Again, she's not likely to run into a Super Skilled Guy.
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She is very likely to run into some guy who is very interested in her, but he'll
probably rely more on "selling skills"... which is somewhat over-rated... b/c he
has to sell her on a "series of things" about her husband that may not be
consistent with her experiences....
He's a regular guy.
In other words...as an example...it's hard to make a case (sales pitch) that her
husband doesn't care about her, when last week he surprised her with a fluffy
white kitten wearing a miniature t-shirt that reads "I love you sweetheart!" and
then just as she read the t-shirt, the little kitten meows...
And then she looks at her husbands and starts crying ...followed by giving him
the longest hug and kiss he's ever received in his life!!!
The attraction to the husband is based on a series of experiences.
Do you think a Super Skilled Guy With Patience is going to launch an attack after
an event like that? Nope.
A regular guy will!
That's what I mean by low percentage move...
If the husband/boyfriend (who may be concerned about another guy stealing his
woman) is a sincere/good/confident guy + he has a quality woman + he knows
how to press her buttons (sexual & nonsexual) + he understands a woman's
basic vulnerabilities (and how to defend against them), then he doesn't have
anything to worry about...
He doesn't have to become this super crazy arousal master - who can bend
spoons with his mind.
imho, the guys that should be worried the most are the (1) guys who doesn't get
respect, (2) the guy who has trouble turning her on (i.e. he obviously doesn't
know her buttons), and the (3) guy who doesn't truly love/respect her and the guy
(4) who has a woman with vulnerabilities (low self-value, low self-control, naive,
too trusting, clueless about guy's intentions, etc.)
The guy should spend time connecting with her, showing his love and
appreciation for her, being the guy who is right for her (if he's capable of being
that guy) and taking the time to understand her [i.e. what's her biggest
dream/fantasy....what is proud of...what does she enjoy doing...etc]
Not only will he have increased the force-field around her (metaphorically
speaking) but he will be happy and get more out of his seductive efforts....
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Just Re-Released
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(Note: if you already own a copy, there is a new update that features a 6 page
summary, so you'll be getting a copy of that soon.)
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I just bought your book and have read it three times about seducing a married
woman and I have a question for you because I am in a very unique and different
situation.
A few bullet points: I'm 41, live in la, I'm a successful guy who has a fair amount
of girls interested in me (don't get me wrong I'm no Brad Pitt, though)
So.. about 8 months ago my best girlfriend introduced me to her good girlfriend.
and BAM..it was like lightening in a bottle. everyone felt it. we just blocked out the
room the whole night as we talked....well, she has been married for 9 years and
is from Poland. she married this guy (short, mean, controlling etc) half out of
staying in America and half because they became close friends at work. she is
now 7 months form her "freedom" when she becomes a legal citizen.
Anyway, we've sporadically stayed in touch and the last few months we've been
texting, emailing and have hung out 4-5 times: walking dogs, lunch, etc. i have
never been in a sexual situation with her but we flirt and drink wine at lunch and
talk fairly openly. ill say something like I WAKE UP AND GO FOR A SWIM ON
MY ROOFTOP and she will say OH, I FORGOT YOU HAVE APOOL WE
SHOULD GO SWIMMING ILL BRING THE WINE...or YOU ARE A MEMBER OF
THAT CLUB? YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME THERE OR DO YOU KNOW WHERE
THE SECRET WATERFALL IS? YOU HAVE TO TAKE ME THERE...BUT
WHEN I ASK HER TO ACTUALLY DO ANY OF THOSE THINGS SHE
SOMETIMES NEVER GETS BACK TO OR MAKES THE PLANS VERY WISHY
WASHY OR MAKES ME ASK 3 TIMES BEFORE I GET AN ANSWER. ITS
CONFOUNDING..
Her friend told me she is a very very sensual person and passionate and isn't
having sex with her guy for awhile but does not cheat. what she does is have
revolving crushes weekly OH HES SO HOT...HES THIS HES THAT (I WAS ONE
A FEW MONTHS AGO)
The other night i happened to see her out and walked her to her car and i said to
her..where did you get your beautiful brown eyes...and she said from my
dad...you remind me of him...and i said...is that good or bad..and she
said...good...i love my dad...he's rad.
So...im just not sure what to do here? im very very attracted to her sexually and
as a person. she's actually a person id like to date but would also looove to just
meet in hotel rooms and make the world stop...but cant seem to get to that level.
the way she acts around me it would be hard for me to believe she isn't in to me
but then again maybe i'm just a ego boost or...im not sure. she says she wants to
do all these things but it is hard to get her to do them.
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heeelp?
Do you think it would up my sexual value if she saw me with another woman??
oh also when we meet she kisses me on the cheek and when we part a peck on
the lips....
Any advice here would be very appreciated.
Hey [Gary]
Any time there is 'this type' of relationship (no serious dating, no commitment) +
she's not really hiding other guys from you + she could perceive you as overpursuing (hard to say)...
...it would be massively beneficial (from an SV standpoint) for her "see" or hear
about you with other women...in fact, it's almost a must...along with other things...
As far as building SV, I get the impression you have enough of that covered,
seeing you with another woman will get her thinking about you more, however,
the missing link is probably a "strong connection" in your case...that's going to
seal the deal...
Based on what you have explained, you should be able to EASILY build sexual
desire in her and have her crazy over you...
Again, you remind her of her dad...number 2, she's been in a meaningless
relationship with mean and controlling guy for 9 years. She's starving for a "real
connection".
As a connection building strategy, demonstrate that you understand key things
about her like:
What makes her special/unique (from her perspective).
What does she love? (passion, hobbies, interests)
What is it that she's proud of (accomplishments, skills, talents,
experiments)
What's her outlook/philosophies? (about life, about relationships)
Also, try to be the best listener she's ever experience and show her that you're
fascinated with her "life story".
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Also... and this may sound conflicting but don't make her out to be a "big deal"
yet at the same time really convince yourself (if you have to) that you're
fascinated with her...
If she thinks your current attraction to her is based purely on looks that's not
going to be enough...
So the attitude is kind of like a ongoing silent message to her that says: "ok.. not
bad... you're starting to impress me.", but not because how hot she is or any
"numb" over-signal [something she's heard a million times].
When you look at the "3 Dimensions of desirability" (sexual value + building a
connection + making her feel good), at various points in a woman's life she's
going to be STARVING for one area more than the others based on who she is
and/or what she is currently experiencing...
That's very important to know!
Much of your success is going to be based on what she is looking for? What she
desires? What does she want from a guy? What are her beliefs about
guys/sex/relationships?
In you case (based on what you said) she's not likely to be in a rush to be tied
down...She described her husband as controlling, so she's going to be hypersensitive to any "perceived pushiness"...
So the "jealousy" thing could work... I could see that having a huge impact...the
focus should be more on some hard core "connection building" along with
"allowing her to see a more complete-you emerge (one who is interested in
knowing about her, connecting with her, listening to her, etc)....if you can do that,
than you should be able to attract you - no doubt about it...
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Hey CR,
I purchased Red Bubbles [GetHerBackFast.com] yesterday, fascinating stuff, lots
of those aha moments!
I have been trying for a while now to get a certain woman back into my life, read
loads of stuff, some good, some bad. I think I've been quite close on occasions,
but as yet haven't been quite able to pull it off, it's become quite a challenge but I
don't like to be beaten.
I have developed a real interest in psychology and really enjoy and gain a lot
from reading your reports.
Anyway, I read Red Bubbles and thought, nothing to lose, I haven't spoken to her
for more than a week so I quite simply fired off a long text message to her
(unlikely she would pick up a call) tackled a few of those red bubbles, [did
something mentioned in the Red Bubbles report].
In the middle of the text I casually dropped in the line [another RB strategy].
I got no response from her last night but then the strangest thing! I got a text this
afternoon from her at work, quite unusual, she's normally far too busy at work to
text. She apologized for not replying but claimed to have only just got the text,
blaming it on her phone, but I know she received it last night. She ended it 'talk
later.xx' What do you make of that??
Spooky stuff, will let you know how it goes, have to go back and read it again
now.
I think I've made an excellent investment, if not for now, but definitely for the
future.
Many thanks,
[Jeff]
Hey [Jeff]
Glad to read your email my friend...
That's an extremely good sign as you probably suspect. Women can be
incredibly vague as I'm sure you've experienced. lol. So yeah, it's a definitely
(without a doubt) a good sign.
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Hi CR
Thank you for replying. Needless to stay I'm still waiting for her 'to talk' :)
I have a question for you, and I would be really grateful for your take on this. I
should say that we are both in our early fifties!
The woman I am with (sometimes) was in an emotionally abusive marriage which
ended seven years ago, she finally walked out. A really bad break, lots of fights,
the typical 'If I can't have you nobody else will', all the normal crap women get
from this type of idiot.
The problem is this guy just won't leave it, even though he moved another victim
in straight after the split. They have two grown up children between them and a
two year old grandson, so they have to maintain some limited contact, although
there is nothing amicable about it. In fact this guy uses this as way of trying to
undermine any confidence she has in herself, in other words, he is still trying to
control her (and succeeding).
I know you would probably say 'run away, and don't look back' but I'm not ready
to throw in the towel yet, I see great things in this woman, although I know she
doesn't see them herself.
My question is this: Do you think it's possible that the 'Red Bubble' in her head
has actually been created by him, and that every time he acts up (and we're
going through one of those phases right now) that bubble becomes so large that
that's all she can concentrate on and that everything else (including me) no
longer exists in her world.
Am I creating another 'Red Bubble' by trying to maintain some contact with her
whilst she deals with his nonsense. And if so, is there something I can say to her
to remove my 'Red Bubble'.
Thanks
[Jeff]
Hey [Jeff]
I wouldn't say run away. If you have the belief that you can make things work and
you're willing to do what it takes, then go for it.
As far as the red bubble being created by him, I think that's very possible. Based
on what you are saying, it's a case (much like you probably suspect) where the
size of the bubble changes based on her changing feelings/perceptions about
him.
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In most cases, doing things to become more desirable (whether it's in the context
of getting a woman back, getting her to be attracted to you the first time, or
getting a current partner to be more intimate) is a matter of sending a higher
percentage of signals that she finds to be attractive.
When everything is normal, that's what you're up against.
If there is a situation whether the bubble is created by him....or more specifically,
he controls how she perceives other guys, then it's pretty much the same
situation as if she was in a relationship with him (even though she may not label
it as that).
It's like a woman who is madly in love with her husband. The strategy (for an
outside guy) that would have worked while she was single doesn't work any
more.
Your situation could be along those lines.
As far as what you can say, I believe (to accomplish what you're tying to
accomplish) it would require a series of conversations - because I'm not sure if
she's "one conversation" away from breaking away from the mental hold that he
has on her.
After (and only after) she's at a point where she's really comfortable with talking
to you, you should put the game plan in motion - having a series of conversations
that accomplishes a "formula" of things.
1. Getting her to talk about what she doesn't like about him. why she doesn't
think he's right for her?
2. Building her up. giving her compliments. getting her to see herself as a strong
person. getting her to see herself in a better way. (the only reason a person
allows others to treat them disrespectfully is because she doesn't respect
herself....so if you get her to respect herself more, then automatically she'll began
to devalue anyone who attempts to disrespect her.)
3. Build your value + build the connection (get her to see you as someone she
has a unique/special bond)
I hope that helps [Jeff]. I really hope things work out for you my friend...
Take Care. (keep me posted)
Warmly
CR
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Hi Instructor CR,
It really has been reading your Levels of Communication free report.. I am having
quite a revelation! I am reading through your free newsletter starting with the
mega-issue to enhance my life.
However, I was getting intrigued about you mentioned that you once helped one
man to seduce someone's wife, while the man convinced you he had a good
purpose. So you develop a game plan for him. And he win but hadn't claim his
price (what a dork).
Now say that there is one good, caring, loving husband (with good sexual value)..
But someone (as skilled as you Instructor CR James are) wants to seduce this
poor man's wife.. Maybe because he knew their son will be combination of
Einstein, Mozart and Da Vinci (whatever reason, he just want THIS particular
woman).
Imagine, he with such great skill want to get this wonderful woman.
Now let's say this husband is decently a man (maybe had read and practiced
your stuff), but someone else (like, say, you yourself) want to seduce his wife.
Is there any defense? You have way higher skills, and you can develop super
bombastic game plan to get his wife.
Anything this poor husband can do?
This is actually my friend's question when I shared with him what the necessity of
what I've learned from dating sciences. He said that if the seduction game truly
work like this charm, all of us must be aware that someone with higher skill can
steal our woman at anytime. Well logically that makes quite some sense to me.
And if this is the case, I might sign up for private tutor from all seduction masters,
mind you.
Thank you for reading, and I just want to hear your opinion about it.
Regards,
[Kevin]
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Hey [Kevin]
Lol. Interesting question. I love the scenario...
Yeah there's a defense. If the relationship is strong/perfect (in the mind of the
woman) which by default means she's with a guy who "amazing" (from her
perspective) + she doesn't have any major personality exploits (being naive,
having low will power [self control], etc.), then it becomes extremely difficult even
for a skilled guy.
Chances are she'll never cross the path of a Super Skilled Guy.
And even still, he's not really a threat.
The guy who is the real threat is the Super Skilled Guy With Patience Who
Targets Her!!
That's who the husband should concern himself with...(of course, he doesn't
have a concept of a Super Skilled Guy).
He thinks: "She married me. I'm safe. Women never cheat."
The Super Skilled Guy With Patience is the guy who spends an enormous
amount of time systematically unraveling her perceptions - that her husband isn't
right for her...among other things...
(As a side note: I've talked to hundreds of guys who wanted me to help them
repair an aspect of their relationship and in the process I'll ask the guy questions
about her [what's her biggest dream/fantasy....what is proud of...what does she
enjoy doing...etc] and often times, the guy doesn't even know.)
Imagine for a second: A wife talking to a male co-worker who takes the time to
not only learn everything little thing about her, but he compliments her and
encourages her to follow a dream, etc. Let's just say he encourages her to write
poetry. When she writes something exciting, who is she going to show it to? Let's
say he gives a compliment about her poetry style and creativity, what kind of
connection is that going to build? When he encourages and challenges to enter
the poem into an online contest and she WINS!!! first place, who is she going to
tell first? (Keep in mind, this is just basic stuff. He doesn't have to insult the
husband. He doesn't even have to bring him up. Now imagine, if they're having
problems. Now imagine if the co-worker is just pounding her with impact
moments like this over and over and over again - month after month after month.
Again, she's not likely to run into a Super Skilled Guy.
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She is very likely to run into some guy who is very interested in her, but he'll
probably rely more on "selling skills"... which is somewhat over-rated... b/c he
has to sell her on a "series of things" about her husband that may not be
consistent with her experiences....
He's a regular guy.
In other words...as an example...it's hard to make a case (sales pitch) that her
husband doesn't care about her, when last week he surprised her with a fluffy
white kitten wearing a miniature t-shirt that reads "I love you sweetheart!" and
then just as she read the t-shirt, the little kitten meows...
And then she looks at her husbands and starts crying ...followed by giving him
the longest hug and kiss he's ever received in his life!!!
The attraction to the husband is based on a series of experiences.
Do you think a Super Skilled Guy With Patience is going to launch an attack after
an event like that? Nope.
A regular guy will!
That's what I mean by low percentage move...
If the husband/boyfriend (who may be concerned about another guy stealing his
woman) is a sincere/good/confident guy + he has a quality woman + he knows
how to press her buttons (sexual & nonsexual) + he understands a woman's
basic vulnerabilities (and how to defend against them), then he doesn't have
anything to worry about...
He doesn't have to become this super crazy arousal master - who can bend
spoons with his mind.
imho, the guys that should be worried the most are the (1) guys who doesn't get
respect, (2) the guy who has trouble turning her on (i.e. he obviously doesn't
know her buttons), and the (3) guy who doesn't truly love/respect her and the guy
(4) who has a woman with vulnerabilities (low self-value, low self-control, naive,
too trusting, clueless about guy's intentions, etc.)
The guy should spend time connecting with her, showing his love and
appreciation for her, being the guy who is right for her (if he's capable of being
that guy) and taking the time to understand her [i.e. what's her biggest
dream/fantasy....what is proud of...what does she enjoy doing...etc]
Not only will he have increased the force-field around her (metaphorically
speaking) but he will be happy and get more out of his seductive efforts....
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CR James
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