November 2012

From the Editor’s Desk
By Mort Perlman Managing Editor
Concordian

Only 140 Days ‘til Spring: Holidays Drawing Near

Ring in the New Year at Festive Party
Celebrate the past year and welcome in the New Year, 2013, in your finest attire at the Clubhouse Monday, December 31 at 7:30 p.m. The Regency Room will be transformed into “Hollywood Boulevard” with You as the Stars of 2012. The dance music of the evening will be played by Tommy Dee, an outstanding DJ, who has appeared here before. Dee plays all the tunes that you want to hear, but most importantly love to dance to. As the doors open at 7 p.m. your table will have cheese and crackers, fresh baked rolls and salad to start off the dinner. To follow will be a hot buffet with chicken breast marsala, grilled teriyaki salmon with creamy dill sauce, sliced top sirloin in mushroom sauce, baked eggplant parmigiana, string beans almondine, garlic cheddar and mashed potatoes. After your meal, dance off your dinner to your favorite tunes then take a short break and enjoy the entertainment for the evening. Eric Kearns, The Voice of Legends, will mesmerize you
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Praise for Our Artists
In case you missed it, the annual Art Festival, which attracted 650 attendees, was another huge success. Kudos to the 75 residents who exhibited their beautiful works of art in one of Concordia’s most popular programs. In another art form, the Concordia Players, playing second fiddle to no one, also deserve an extra round of applause for their acting, dancing and singing talents. As usual they gave a superb October performance with their entertaining rendition of “Singin’ in the Rain,” the movie classic that starred the great Gene Kelly. Our community is fortunate to possess such exceptional talent both at the drawing table and on the Regency stage.

The marvelous array of brilliant color from the variety of beautiful flowers we enjoy during spring and summer is about to vanish as the long, dark days of winter approach. The homes (clockwise) of Helen Kantrowitz, Glastonbury Dr., recipient of the annual Garden Club contest prize; Clara and Ewald Zimmerman, Cambridge Dr.; Dolores Meyerhoff, Cambridge Dr.; and Maxine and Chuck Stern, Surry Ct., depict a sample of Concordia’s warm-weather floral landPhotos courtesy Peter Quinn and Maxine Stern scape. Neighbors bundle up!

Time To Remember — Time To Look Ahead
By Mildred Goodwin
December is an exciting month, filled with the expectancy of holiday festivity: Hanukah, Christmas and the anticipation of New Year’s Eve with the twelve months that follow. It is a busy season, but it also gives one an opportunity to give pause and reflect about our own lives and the world in which we live. Let us consider Hanukah which this year will begin Sunday, December 9. This holiday commemorates the victory of the Jews over the Syrians. As a result of the victory, the Jewish people were finally able to rebuild, rededicate the desecrated Temple in Jerusalem, and thus assure their survival. Since that time, Hanukah is known as The Festival Of Lights (the Menorah is its symbol). It is traditional at this time to hold parties with songs and games, especially for children. As we know so well, the giving of gifts has become an important part of the celebration, and let us not forget the delicious “latkes” (potato pancakes), and other treats that are part of these eight days. The candle lighting recalls the victory
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A Little Bit of Italy
Last month we celebrated Columbus’ birthday and by chance three residents of
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Know Your Neighbor
The Chorale and Red Rubenfeld
By Jean Goldberg
Whittingham’s loss was Concordia’s gain! The story behind that is that when Phyllis and Morris (Red) Rubenfeld decided to move from Canarsie to Monroe 19 years ago, they put down a deposit on a home in Whittingham. Shortly after, when they found out that the price of the house had gone up $10,000, the developer was told “forget it.” The Rubenfelds then bought their lovely home across the street in Concordia! A few months after they moved in, Evelyn Cohen came knocking on the door and asked Red to join the Chorale as she had heard that he had a beautiful voice. Evelyn and Mollie Nadel had formed the Chorale using seed money from the Players group. Red joined the singers and in two years became the Chorale’s Chairperson
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Sunny (Sunshine) Raddock — A Singer with a Love for Education
By Frances Greenblatt
One of Concordia’s most recognizable residents over the last several years has been Sunny Raddock. Most of us here know her as the prolific entertainer, whose

Red Rubenfeld
Photo by R. Kaufman

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Tobi’s Tips ............................... 5 Social Whirl .............................. 6 The Lighter Side ...................... 7 At the Movies ........................... 8 Cinema Concordia ................... 8 Trivia ........................................ 9 The Forum ............................. 10 Clubs and Organizations ....... 14 On the Horizon....................... 27

Sunny Raddock
Photo by B. Goodman

Money, Money Everywhere Editorial Page 10 by Bill Kulberg

The CAC booked another successful show in October and the sellout audience seemed to enjoy every moment, keeping beat with “Reminisce”, a popular Doo Wop group of talented entertainers. A review and photo follow on page 2.
Photo by Mort Perlman

acting and singing have provided so much pleasure over the years. What many don’t realize is that she’s been doing it all her life. Sunny was born on the lower east side of New York. Her family moved to the Bronx when she was ten
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will consist of a roast pork Egg Roll and Chinese Tea for appetizer. Dinner will include White and Brown Rice, Shrimp Chow Mein, Vegetable Lo Mein, Pepper Steak with onions, and Chicken and Broccoli and soft drinks. Dessert will be

almond and fortune cookies with Chinese tea, coffee. Enjoy a great meal, and an interesting movie. Enjoy an evening with friends and neighbors. The cost is $14.75 per person. Sign up with the Concierge. *NEW SALE

The Joint Was Jumpin’

Clubhouse Shows, Etc.
November “Opera” Movie Night Features “Bizet’s Carmen”
(English Subtitles 1984 152 Minutes) Bizet’s “Carmen,” performed by Placido Domingo, Ruggero Raimondi, and Faith Esham will play at the Clubhouse Saturday, November 3 at 7 p.m. This production was filmed in Southern Spain and is magnificent. It is the most popular opera production so far on DVD. All the passion and spectacle of “Carmen” comes to life in this dazzling screen opera. Coffee, tea and brownies will be served during intermission. (Upon sign up let us know about sugar free.) The cost is $5 per person. Sign up with Concierge. WAITING LIST ONLY.

Saint Peter’s Conducts Seminar

A sellout crowd really got its money’s worth as New Jersey’s Doo Wop group “Reminisce” put on quite a show recently in Photo by Mort Perlman the Regency Room.

Show Reviews
Doo Wop Reminisced!
By Mort Perlman, Managing Editor
‘Reminisce’, recognized as one of Jersey’s top Doo Wop groups, brought the house down last month with a musical performance rarely surpassed in The Regency Room. If you weren’t there you missed a great show! Their song selections, featuring hit after hit from the 50’s, 60’s and Motown, too, were outstanding. The packed house, feeling the vibes of the group, responded with tremendous energy throughout the evening. The tempo never stopped bringing back memories of our teenage years. Besides the rhythmic clapping and foot stomping, many residents got so pumped up they began dancing in the aisles. A standing ovation acknowledged the talented performers, three singers and five musicians. It exemplified the audience’s appreciation of an enjoyable night that concluded on a ‘high note’ and the singing of God Bless America.

Saint Peter’s Mobile Health Dept. representatives and Dr. Lisa Hopkins, breast treatment specialist (center) presented a special lecture on breast health. The annual October program attracted dozens of women to the Party Room. Tea and pasPhoto by Donna Marie Gelesky tries were served. minutes – PG rated. Barbra Streisand is Fanny Brice in this sequel to the award winning musical “Funny Girl.” In depression era New York, the hugely successful entertainer’s long running show is closing and her marriage with playboy Nick Arnstien (Omar Sharif) is over. Fanny finds herself out of work and looking for material when she meets Billy Rose (James Caan). The film features the songs “More Than You Know,” and “Million Dollar Baby.” Also starring are Ben Vereen and Roddy McDowall. coming you Thursday, November 15. You will receive $10 slot play and a 3:30 p.m. Christmas Show ticket. Departing the Clubhouse at 10 a.m. we should arrive at noon. Leaving for home at 6 p.m., estimated time returning is 8 p.m. Cost $23.25 per person. Sign up Concierge.

Culture Corner
“Funny Lady” Coming to Concordia
The November Culture Corner Movie features “Funny Lady” (1975) and is booked for Tuesday, November 27 at 1:30 p.m. It is 136

Jon Peterson Sings and Dances His Way into Our Hearts
By Vivian Mardenfield
On Saturday evening, September 8, Jon Peterson was the star of our Auditorium Show. What a delightful, talented young man he is. He had a lovely stage presence, which immediately made him a hit with the audience. He has a lovely singing voice and his dancing was superb. His act consisted of telling us about all of the famous song and dance men throughout the modern age. He started with vaudeville stars and went on through Fred Astaire, Gene Kelly, Sammy Davis, Jr., and many others. He performed many of the numbers which made these people famous. The audience showed their appreciation with a standing ovation at the end of the show. Coffee and cake followed in the Party Room for those who were interested. All in all it was a wonderful evening.

“Radio City Christmas Show and Backstage Radio City Tour”
(Orchestra Seats) A trip into the city for the Holidays is planned for Thursday, November 29; departing the Clubhouse at 9 a.m. Enjoy a guided onehour tour of two groups at 11:15 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. After the tour lunch is on your own. Be back for the Christmas Show to start promptly at 2 p.m. with the Rockettes. Depart for home 3:30 p.m. and arrive home at approximately 5:30 p.m. Sign up with your friends and family to kick off the holiday season. Cost for this trip is $88.50 per person. Sign up with Concierge. Open to guests. Waiting list only.

Movie for December
“New Year’s Eve” will be shown Tuesday, December 18 at 1:30 p.m. in the Clubhouse. It is 118 minutes long and rated PG-13 Producer/Director Gary Marshall brings together a stellar ensemble cast to celebrate love, hope, forgiveness, second changes and fresh starts in the intertwining stories told amidst the pulse and promise of New York City on the most dazzling night of the year. The cast includes Halle Berry, Jessica Biel, Jon Bon Jovi, Abigail Breslin, Robert De Niro, Hilary Swank, Sarah Jessica Parker and many more well known actors. Sign up with the Concierge.

Eric Kearns Voice of Legends

“Ticket Procedure”
First day of sign up is now the second Saturday of the month. When purchasing tickets you must present your Concordia identification card at the time you present your check. When signing up for a full table one ID card is needed and the address and phone number on all checks will be verified. Before entry to all shows, present your Concordia ID card along

New Year Party
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with his ability to duplicate the vocals of many different artists. During a portion of his show Eric will invite those who wish to dance onto the dance floor. Assorted platters of mini Italian pastries and sugar free cream puffs, coffee and tea as well as soft drinks will be served. Don’t miss out on this very, festive party, and bring in the New Year with your friends and neighbors. The cost of this gala event is $55.50 per person. Sign up with the Concierge. Only a few seats left.
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Coming Attraction...Jan.
Chinese Buffet & Movie
Join us for a delicious Chinese Hot Buffet and a first-rate move Saturday, January 19 at 5 p.m. The movie will be announced in the next Horizon/ Concordian.) Your buffet

with your tickets. No cash; include phone number and addresses on checks. Penciled in names for cabaret style shows for two days only. Ticket numbers for sales will not be given out before 8:30 a.m. Only Clubhouse numbers will be honored. Clubhouse policy: you may always sign up other couples; however each couple must submit their own check. First day for new sales will be second Saturday of the month.

Bus Trips
Atlantic City Resorts Casino Show
Resorts Casino will be wel-

Mark Your Calendar Upcoming Events 2013
February 3 March 9 April 20 May 25 Superbowl Party Movie Nite Comfort Seating Auditorium Show Cabaret Memorial Weekend Dance
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It’s the time of the year when instructional classes are being offered to residents at the Clubhouse. You have a selection to choose from. The lottery courses listed today require a $5 registration fee that is refundable. The driving course offered by AARP has a one-time

charge. It is important to read the guidelines concerning these classes and the deadlines for applying. A CHOA consent form must be submitted by the resident along with a lottery form, if it’s a physical activity. SG Heating & Air Conditioning, LLC on Wednesday, November 14 at 1:30 p.m. will present the benefits of its new Whole House Maintenance Agreement which is available exclusively to Concordia and Clearbrook. You can have the peace of mid of a professional, polite, reliable, licensed contractor covering the major systems in your home. Servicing your equipment regularly ensures peak performance, reliability and lowers your energy costs. They work around the clock, so you can receive 24 -hour emergency service when you need it. Snowbirds are offered shut down and open up winterization services, too. Refreshments will be served. Sign up with Concierge.

Instructional Classes
Please check Concierge desk after the lottery deadline to see if you made the class. If you cannot make a class, please do not call the Instructor; call Concierge for an excused absence. In order to get your $5 returned at the end of class, you must attend half the classes and cannot have more than three excused absences.

ments. Concordians who have signed up will be checked in at the door after showing their ID. No guests will be allowed without a $5 fee paid to the Concierge.

Seminars Saint Peter’s Medical Seminar
“How to Keep Healthy in the Winter” On November 13 at 1:30 p.m., Dr. Shira Goldberg, Internist, will discuss tips to stay well throughout the winter months. Light refreshments will be served. Sign up with Concierge.

AARP Driving Class
This course helps mature drivers sharpen skills. The class will be held Thursday, November 8 from 12 - 6 p.m. Receive a discount when renewing auto insurance and deduct two points from your motor vehicle license. You must have a New Jersey License and show your AARP card. If a couple signs up, two checks are needed. Eat before you come and bring a light snack and/or water for a break. Cost for members is $12 and cost to non-members is $14 per person. Make all checks payable to AARP. Veterans Promotion means from November 1 through November 30, all AARP Driver Safety classroom courses are free to veterans, active duty and retired military service members, their spouses, domestic partners, dependents, children and widow or widowers. Please bring proof of service. Sign up with Concierge.

“Dizziness, Parkinson Disease, Gait and Balance”
On December 11 at 1:30 p.m. Dr. Behar and Dr. Dixit, local neurologists, will discuss vertigo and some new techniques to eliminate that spinning feeling. Recent care for people with Parkinson Disease and Balance disorders will be addressed. Light refreshments will be served. Sign up with Concierge.

Interest Beginner Mah Jongg Class Instructor Sharon Falkowitz
Anyone interested in learning how to play Mah Jongg on Monday evenings in the early winter, sign up with Concierge.

Energy Conservation Seminar
“Home Performance with Energy Star”

Canasta
Anyone interested in teaching a Canasta class in the sprig, please let the Concierge know.

Evening Aquacize
On Tuesday evenings at 6:30-7 p.m. Aquacize Classes will be held in the Indoor Pool. Sign up with the Concierge and fill out a physical consent form.

Chorale Spreads Concordia Good Will
By Jack Galin
For the second time within the past month, the Concordia Chorale has helped spread the outstanding reputation of Concordia in relation to its neighbors. On August 23, the Chorale presented a one-hour program of popular songs to the patients, visitors and staff of The Garden Rehabilitation Center of Monroe. Then, three weeks later, the Chorale repeated a similar program for a comparable audience at the Residences at Forsgate, another elder care and rehab center. In both instances an almost full complement of the Chorale was present and, according to the staff of each institution, provided a delightful afternoon of song and entertainment for most appreciative audiences. Arranged by President Red Rubenfeld and led by David Schlossberg, director, the Chorale seeks to represent Concordia in a most beneficial and charitable way.

Watch Our Weight
An eight-week “Watch Our Weight” Class conducted by Marilyn Mix, volunteer instructor, will begin Thursday, November 1 in the Clubhouse. Men and women, do you have fifteen or more pounds to lose? Why not join our weight management class? It is a balanced and comprehensive program for weight reduction. It includes a food plan, an exercise program, and recipe suggestions, and integrates the Internet as an asset for achieving weight goals. As a group you will work together with support and words of wisdom and lose pounds together at weekly meetings. Class is open to 12-30 participants. A $5 refundable registration fee is required. The other class dates are November 8, 15, 29 and December 6, 13, 20, 27. The time is 4-5 p.m. Call the Concierge for availability.

Security at Work Sept. 2012
Ben Ravaioli — Security Supervisor (609) 655-1880
Total Home Alarms Received at Gatehouse........293 Response to Home Emergency Alarms...............187 Response to Home Entry False Alarms ................55 Response to Home Lockouts ................................19 Response to Accidents .......................................... 0 Tickets Issued .......................................................0* Response to Various Reports ................................51 * Tickets issued in September will be shown in Oct. report. Concordia Security
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Important Notice
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All About Books
Reviewed by Sylvia Sissman

By Allison Brophy Champion
Jeannette Walls lived a childhood of struggle and beauty. This book is a memoir written by her with a resume that includes New York Magazine, Esquire and MSNBC. It was an early life peppered with paradoxes. It is a story Walls knew she had to tell, the one she was ashamed to relate. A successful journalist, she didn’t know how her story would be received. She describes growing up with an alcoholic father and a blithely negligent mother. Walls’ writing portrays the difficult circumstances of her family without a trace of selfpity. Despite the inability of her parents to provide a stable home, Jeannette’s love for her family is unmistakable. In the opening chapter, Walls describes her mother on the streets of NYC through the window of a taxi. She glimpses her mother looting through the trash barrels in the East Village. She orders a taxi driver to take her to her home on Park Avenue while her mother continues with her life on the street, like so many homeless New Yorkers. From this scene, we are taken back to her earliest memories. Jeannette has three other younger siblings. The children are resourceful, eat whatever they are given and forage for food or collect scraps and bottles that they sell for cash. Rather than being respectful and caring during their children’s younger years, the parents possess offbeat practicality and liberal philosophy. Their mother considers herself an artist and spends as much time as possible painting, writing and sculpting. She wishes her children would be selfreliant and they would be forced to care for themselves. Their father is a dreamer, always working on some invention, guaranteed to make the family rich - if he only could get the funding to complete his plans. The family is rootless and highly mobile, masters of the “skedaddle,” usually accomplished late at night. Whenever the unpaid bills pile up, they pile a few meager possessions in an old car and hit the road. They live in a series of small, rusty mining towns in the desserts of Arizona, California and New Mexico. Rex Walls is a fairly classic alcoholic and is full of big dreams, however neither parent seems to want or achieve a comfortable life for them or their children. The biggest of Rex’s dreams is to build an enormous mansion of glass for his family, out in the desert with solar panels; he draws up elaborate detailed plans
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The Glass Castle

for the “Glass Castle” inventing a fabulous life which they will all live some day. They drift from one desert town to another. They move to West Virginia and inhabit their grandmother’s rickety old house; its only saving grace is that it is perched so high up in the hills that they are spared the flooding the town below receives. The family situation continues to deteriorate, the father is known as the town drunk. The children begin amassing money by taking jobs to allow Lori to finish high school and escape to New York. Lori is their safe haven. Eventually all three children finish high school and move in with Lori and work hard to find jobs. Three years later, after they all have moved to New York, their parents call and say they have followed. However, their lives have not changed. They are evicted from boarding houses and they become homeless people. But they seem to enjoy themselves in the city streets with their freedom. When Jeannette (Lori) views her mother rummaging

through the dumpster she retreats to the comfort of her Park Avenue home. Propelled by guilt, she contacts her mother and admits her cowardice. Her mother says, “don’t be embarrassed, your father and I are who we are.” There are some simple questions I pose upon reading this book; such as: - What is artistic freedom and does it come above responsibility to family? - What do parents owe children, and what do children owe parents? - Is homelessness a choice? Yet the children never judged their parents harshly. Their parents were only following their “Bliss” and taking the children with them. Self-seeking? Shocking, sad and occasionally bitter, this gracefully written account speaks candidly, yet with surprising affection, always compelling, sometimes tragic and never dull. Walls’ memoir is a mustread; no matter how perfect or flawed your childhood, it will make you laugh and break your heart at the same time.

The Bridge Connection
By Rosalie Slutsky, Master Teacher and Director, Licensed by ACBL and ABTA For a little summer fun, here is one of Eddie Kantar’s favorite hands. You get to look at all four hands, and pour a cold lemonade, sit on the lawn chair, enjoy the sunshine and see if you can work out this puzzle: North ♠AJ7 ♥Q83 ♦ A J 10 7 6 5 ♣K West East ♠432 ♠5 ♥2 ♥ A K J 10 9 7 ♦KQ ♦9842 ♣J875432 ♣ 10 9 South ♠ K Q 10 9 8 6 ♥654 ♦3 ♣AQ6 West North East South — 1D 2H 2S Pass 3S Pass 4S All Pass Sifting West, you lead your singleton H - 2 (brilliant) partner wins the H - J - how obvious. But looking carefully, what are you, West going to do to defeat the contract? Solution: As West it appears that partner is winning the first three heart tricks (she bid a weak 2 – has 6 hearts – 3 in dummy, 3 for declarer). You get to make two discards make them play. Throw away the D – K and D – Q — partner will then lead a diamond for you to get a ruff! There are people who have no head for cards. It is impossible not to be sorry for them, for what, one asks one’s self, can the future offer them when the glow of youth has departed and advancing years force them, as they force all of us, to be spectators rather than actors in the comedy of life. To have learned to play a good game of Bridge is the safest insurance against the tedium of old age. Throughout life one might find in cards endless entertainment and occupation for idle hours that rests the mind and exercises the intelligence. If I had my way, I would have children taught Bridge as a matter of course, just as they are taught dancing. In the end it will be more useful to them...you can play Bridge as long as you can sit up at a table and tell one card from another. In fact, when all else fails - sports, love, ambition Bridge remains a solace and an entertainment.” (Somerset Maugham) (This article is being repeated from a previous issue with a few changes.) Happy Bridging, everyone!
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Tobi’s Tips
By Tobi A. Bellovin
Stains, stains and more stains. They appear and we don’t know what to do to remove them. I will try to solve the mysteries of stains. Some tips work, others are questionable. See what works for you. Many thanks to Marilyn, Barbara and Muriel for their suggestions. • Once again, my favorite is peroxide. Super great for blood stains on white or
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September 5 North-South Ethel Lane-Jean Firkser Rita Rosenberg-Ben Greenblatt Barbara Dranoff-Corinne Edelbaum East-West Rosalie Slutsky-Barbara Cohen Alice Pollard-Ruth Elblonk Carol Cohen-Lewis Cohen September 7 North-South Helen Solomon-Leonard Solomon Anita Pollack-Bernard Pollack Rita Rosenberg-Ben Greenblatt East-West Edith Rolnik-Bruce Friedman Dorothy Glaser-Phil Savage Harriet Brandwein-Irv Rothschild September 12 North-South Helen Solomon-Len Solomon Naomi Beck-Mimi Tunick Anita Pollack-Bernard Pollack East-West Harriet Brandwein-Irv Rothchild Olive Agins-Fay Spatt Barbara Berger-Rosalie Gelernt September 14 North-South Barbara Dranoff-Ben Greenblatt Helen Solomon-Leonard Solomon Dorothy Glaser-Phil Savage East-West Lewis Cohen-Barry Taback Shirley Appelson-Mimi Tunick Eileen Biega-Bill Biega September 19 North-South Ben Greenblatt-Barbara Dranoff Herb Ettinger-Roz Ettinger Helen Solomon- Len Solomon East-West Carol Cohen-Lewis Cohen Carol Korris-Mike Korris Corinne Green-Edith Rolnik September 21 North-South Rita Rosenberg-Ben Greenblatt Rosalie Slutsky-Edith Rolnik Naomi Beck-Millie Pitchon East-West Evelyn Hornick-Irwin Hornick Lewis Cohen-Barry Taback Rosalie Brauth-Paul Brauth
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September 28 North-South Ethel Lane-Jean Firkser Barbara Dranoff-Ben Greenblatt Dorothy Glaser-Phil Savage East-West Shirley Cameron-Ruth Geller Susanne Weinstein-John Lederer Evelyn Hornick-Irwin Hornick

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with ice cubes over the stain. When frozen, remove and scrape it off. Use nail polish remover to rid bumper stickers. Scrape with a razor blade or knife. Also helpful with stickers on glassware and dishes. Rid tarnish off silver by filling an aluminum pan with hot water and washing soda. Dip for several minutes. Rinse thoroughly. Revive the shimmer and shine of your costume jewelry by bathing in vinegar. Pour into a dish and dip into the liquid. After 3060 seconds remove. Wipe all crevices and then dry.

Hope you find some hint that will work for you. Don’t forget to share. Until next time..... (Note: Remember to heed all manufacturer safety warnings before cleaning household items and appliances. All advice is offered for informational purposes only. Use your own best discretion when following all household tips.)

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THE SOCIAL WHIRL
A Celebration of Special Days and Events
By Jean Goldberg November has come upon me without adequate notice. It has always been one of my favorite months. Not only is it the month of my arrival in this world, in my working years we had many days off because of the holidays. Election Day, Veterans Day and a four day Thanksgiving weekend were nothing to sneeze at in a short month of 30 days. Of course, all my days are off now that I am a retired woman, but the memory lingers on in my psyche. For those residents leaving us for the palm trees and warm sunshine, have a great winter. We will miss you and look forward to seeing you back safe and sound in the spring. For those of the following residents with birthdays and anniversaries this month, best wishes and happiness on these occasions. Happy November Birthday Clara Calder ................. 11/11 Shirley Chalfin ................ 11/2 Phyllis Cohen ............... 11/13 Charlotte Cohon ........... 11/30 Morton Cowen .............. 11/11 Ann Fass ...................... 11/18 Helen Friedman ........... 11/16 Mildred Gelbach ........... 11/21 Jean Goldberg ............... 11/1 Dave Gorowitz ............... 11/5 Dorothy Gross ............. 11/19 Shirley Hyman ............. 11/12 Rhoda Janover .............. 11/2 Dorothy Josephs.......... 11/24 Helen Kantrowitz ......... 11/23 Lucille Kirkenir ............... 11/1 William Lidman ............ 11/22 Arthur Locke ................ 11/13 Morton Masser ............. 11/19 Bunnie Mate ................ 11/24 Sol Mix ........................... 11/4 Anita Pollack ................ 11/28 Irving Rothstein ............ 11/26 Arnold Sagar ................ 11/18 Edythe Schlesinger...... 11/16 Helene Schulman ........ 11/13 Phyllis Small ................ 11/23 Frieda Spinner ............. 11/10 Hilda Stark ................... 11/24 Jean Sullivan ................. 11/6 Peggy Sullivan ............. 11/12 Judy Tamaroff .............. 11/23 Norman Wain ............... 11/15 Irving Werner ............... 11/11 Shirley Werner ............. 11/13 Florence Wolf .............. 11/19 Sid Wolf ......................... 11/5 Years of Wedded Bliss Happy Anniversary Paula & Stanley Kovsky .... 11/29 Carolyn & Michael Korris .. 11/18 Judith & Sydney Krumholz .. 11/6 Marianne & Harold Leibowitz ............................................ 11/1 Roberta & Maurice Mahler 11/10 Eleanor & Morton Masser . 11/16 Lynn & Pat Murphy ........... 11/22 Eli & Estelle Podberesky ... 11/18 Selma & Arnold Sager ........ 11/1 Florence & Jack Silverman11/14 Rita & Gerald Weissman... 11/14 Welcome to the following new residents: Barbara Lustig, 34B George Washington Drive from Sylvia Sternberg Trust; Bridge Holdings, 26D James Buchanan Drive from Bertha Lipsker; Arlene Turco, 28 Rothwell Drive from Morris Living Trust; Mary Maysonett and Stanley Friedman, 16A Alexander Hamilton Court from Ricklis Estate; Lynn Low, 13B Ingram Drive from Sheldon Steinberg. Condolences to: Solomon Kamen, on the loss of his wife, Ada, and to the families of Edith Rappaport, Warren Daum and Arlene Gold. Personal Notes I would like to thank all my friends who have been so helpful to me during Jerry’s illness. Many thanks again. Lee Berens In light of our father Warren Daum’s passing on September 10, we honor the twenty-five years our parents lived in Concordia. We are grateful for the kindness and compassion of the many friends they made and the wonderful attention provided by the Concordia staff. In further recognition of our parent’s contributions to Concordia, we mention our mother Joan Daum’s participation on the Board of Directors and
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THE (somewhat) LIGHTER SIDE
By Bill Kulberg

Time for a Change
Assuming you’re reading this prior to the election, it may be a good time to think about changes that might be made for future campaigns. Obviously, if the count’s already in, your decision could be influenced by whether your guy won or lost. It’s difficult to imagine there are many who believe this campaign was anything better than disastrous – in so many ways. Overwhelmingly, the most prominent of those ways is in length. In a prior article, I suggested a starting time for presidential election campaigning be the day after the Super Bowl. Now I’m not so sure. Perhaps it can be the day after hockey’s Stanley Cup Playoffs – usually somewhere around the middle of June. This might be a bad time to have offered that solution since the NHL is going through a lockout, with an outside chance of blowing the entire season. No matter, in such an instance, we could jump that starting date to July 1. Irregardless (sic) we can’t continue to have endless campaigning accompanied by endless polls. Aside from people who make their living conducting those interminable polls, who’d have to find honest ways to make livings should their employment be severely truncated, there can’t be too many adversely affected individuals should we decide to apply a circumcision to campaigning. Au contraire, the media could resume reporting the news (as opposed to slanting it a la certain TV and

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radio stations) and Journalism might once more be a revered profession. There are other ways in which presidential campaigns might be improved. The most prominent is in doing away with the incredible nastiness and lying that occurred this year. Unless something is done to stop it, there’s no reason it won’t be repeated in future years. It isn’t my job to determine which party was more guilty (guiltier?), but you can bet the proverbial bottom dollar that the winning party will assume its nastiness was instrumental to that success and repeat the tactic next time. The losers will figure they weren’t disgraceful enough and double down in future campaigns. It’s time to institute a rule that’d put an end to this lying and nastiness. Given modern technology, it would be no trouble for either party to produce videos showing instances where the opposition has lied about some criticism aimed at its candidate, or taken credit for something that might be popular with voters but is, in fact, nowhere near the truth. Assuming a specified number of years going back, beyond which this would not be applicable, where the proof is indisputable, the guilty party would be put on notice. A second violation would cost the perp one electoral vote in the forthcoming election. What’s that you say? Unconstitutional? What would our founding fathers say about such activity? They’d say it’s why we have amendments. How else are we gonna stop this craziness. Politics has reached an all-time low in the public’s estimation and doing nothing will only exacerbate

matters. What’s that you say? The Supreme Court would never allow it? Nine individuals, some of whom, at times, have their heads buried in constitutionality rather than reality? They can’t be allowed to stand in the way of curing what has relegated presidential campaigning to something the equivalent of modern day films that resort to noise and violence by way of compensating for lousy scripts. In this instance, the black robed ladies and gentlemen must sit one out. Either that, or there’s got to be a way to impress upon them the harm being done by the two parties and the desecration of a system that’s been highlighted by the likes of Henry Clay, John Calhoun, Stephen Douglas, Abraham Lincoln, Daniel Webster, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, Martin Luther King Jr., Ronald Reagan, Bill Clinton and George W. Bush. Okay, nine out of ten ain’t bad. If there’s a better way to return to campaign civility, I’d love to hear about it. If there’s a way to return to the days when Congress was productive, I’d love to hear about that too. Until something can be done to curtail the gutter politics, congressional inactivity and resulting public disgust, it’s going to feel like political quicksand around these parts. And don’t get me started on Super Pacs. How do we accomplish all this? Beats me. I thought of the idea; maybe someone out there can think of a way to implement it. Meanwhile, I intend voting for (continued on page 50).

the Annual Joan Daum Memorial Blood Drive as well as the numerous committees and clubs they participated in. Thank you one and all for the love you’ve shown our parents, and to us. JoAnna Daum and Leslie Daum To all our friends and neighbors of this wonderful Concordia community, Lila and I thank you for all the support, cards, phone calls and visits we received after I returned from the hospital and the rehab facility. Your words of encouragement, as well as your deeds of shopping and taking me to visit my doctors and the nurses in Concordia will not be forgotten. This is not the first time I have had the need for the nurses, and it is a source of great comfort to know that they are available 24/7/365. They are caring, compassionate, and knowledgeable. Sincerely, Ray Laby
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At the Movies
By Mildred Goodwin
Our cup will soon “runneth over” with all the exciting and broad range of films that are coming our way prior to the Oscars that will be awarded for 2012, such as “The Master,” “Lincoln,” “Anna Karenin,” “Argo,” and others. Few of these have reached our area as yet, but will soon be on their way. For now, let us discuss a rather dubious film, “The Master.” “The Master,” which stars Philip Seymour Hoffman and Joaquin Phoenix made quite a favorable impression on most reviewers. But in the view of this writer - not so! Indeed, Hoffman’s performance brought me back the days of Orson Welles, and Joaquin Phoenix’s method acting and muffled speech was reminiscent of Marion Brando. Perhaps this would not have been too irritating if only “The Master” did not run so long and say so little. Most of us are familiar with brain-washing, pseudo psychologists and other pseudo methodologies. Most certainly, Tom Cruise and John Travolta have brought the questionable practice of Scientology to the forefront. It has even been accepted as a formal religion in certain circles. Although author and director John Paul Anderson claims that any resemblance to Scientology and its founder, L. Ron Hubbard is coincidental, this hardly seems the case. In “The Master,” Lancaster Dodd (Philip Seymour Hoffman) believes that painful memories that people carry with them can be eliminated by “processing” them away. Dodd, a charming, megalomaniac, finds an ideal subject, Freddie Quell (Joaquin Phoenix) an alcoholic sociopath who is a human mess-devoid of conscience or responsibility, at war with himself and society. The egotistic Dodd is pleased to have found Freddie, and says to him, “Don’t apologize that you are a scoundrel.” And so Freddie remains with Dodd who prepares him to become a disciple. For 137 minutes, we remain in our seats (if you so wish) and learn how Freddie remains the anti-social scoundrel, and Dodd’s charisma leads him to lucrative heights in his earnest belief that he can play God with the human soul. I do not recommend “The

Master” for its plot, but I am aware of the fine performances of its stars. It is an overly long, repetitive film and if you remember “The Emperor’s New Clothes,” you have already had a preview. For Concordia film buffs, I would like to suggest that you visit “Lights! Camera! Action! The History Of Film, 1890-1960 in New Jersey.” This exhibit is open until December 31 - without charge Monday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4 p.m., and every Sunday (except holidays), from 1 to 4 p.m. The location is the Cornelius Low House, Middlesex County Museum, 1225 River Road, Piscataway. For more information, call the museum, 732-745-4177. May we enjoy a Happy Thanksgiving with family and friends, and perhaps we shall meet soon again At The Movies!

Cinema Concordia
November Concordia Movies
“Phantom Of The Opera” Sunday, November 4 93 Min. – R-Rated 2 (CC) and 7 p.m. An emotionally and physical scarred man known as the Phantom once an enormously talented composer, haunts a contemporary opera house in search of a maiden he can groom to be his diva. Starring Robert Englund, Bill Nighy, Alex Hyde White and Jill Schoelen. “Contraband” Saturday, November 10 109 Min. - R-Rated 2 (CC) and 7:30 p.m. Mark Wahlberg stars as a legendary smuggler who has left his criminal past behind to be with his wife and sons. When a ruthless drug kingpin threatens his family, he must summon his old skills and contacts for one last run. Also starring Kate Beckinsale, Lukas Haas, Giovanni Ribisi and Ben Foster. “Act of Valor” Sunday, November 11 111 Min. - R-Rated 2 (CC) and 7 p.m. “Act of Valor” stars a group of active duty Navy Seals in a powerful story of contemporary global anti terrorism. Inspired by true events, an elite team of Navy Seals race against the clock to stop a planned terrorist attack on US soil. Starring Nestor Serrano, Roselyn Sanchez, Emilio Rivera and Jason Cottle. “Adjustment Bureau” Saturday, November 17 106 Min. - PG13 Rated 2 (CC) and 7:30 p.m. Academy Award winner Matt Damon stars in this romantic thriller about a man who glimpses the future fate has planned for him and chooses to fight for his own destiny. Battling the powerful adjustment bureau across under and through the streets of New York he risks his destined greatness to be with the only woman he has ever loved. Also starring Emily Blunt, John Slattery and Michael Kelly. “Five Year Engagement” Sunday, November 18 124 Min. - R-Rated (Strong Sexual Content and Language) 2 (CC) and 7 p.m. A couple, Tom and Violet, find their wedding plans interrupted by a number of disappointments and surprises over the course of five years. Violet is forced to move to Michigan for school and Tom becomes frustrated by missed job opportunities in this romantic comedy. Starring Emily Blunt, Jason Segal, Chris Pratt, Alison Brie and Lauren Weedman. “Tower Heist” Sunday, November 24 105 Min. - PG-13 Rated 2 (CC) and 7 p.m. (Bad Language and Sexual Content) Ben Stiller and Eddie Murphy lead an all-star cast in this hilarious comedy caper about a luxury condo manager who leads a staff of workers to seek payback on the Wall Street swindler who defrauded them. With only days until the billionaire gets away with the perfect crime, the unlikely crew of amateur thieves enlists the help of a petty crook to steal the $20 million they are sure is hidden in the penthouse. Also starring Tea Leoni, Judd Hirsch and Robert Downey Jr.
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Nurse’s Notes:
Lewy Body Dementia
Stephanie Fitzsimmons Sexton, RN, APN
Dementia is a process whereby the person becomes progressively confused. The earliest signs are usually memory problems, changes in their way of speaking, such as forgetting words, and personality problems. Cognitive symptoms of dementia include poor problem solving, difficulty with learning new skills and impaired decision making. There are a few types of dementia and the three most common types are Alzheimer’s, Lewy Body Dementia and vascular dementia. Many people confuse the fact that dementia is Alzheimer’s and often think it is a separate disorder. In recent years more information has been identified about Lewy Body Dementia and I thought you might find it interesting. I hope you never need this information for your family - but here it is. Fluctuations in cognition will be noticeable to those who are close to the person with Lewy Body Dementia (LBD), such as their partner or a close friend. At times the person will be alert and then suddenly have acute episodes of confusion. These may last for hours or days. Because of these fluctuations, it is not uncommon for it to be thought that the person is “faking.” This fluctuation is not related to the wellknown “sundowning” of Alzheimer’s. In other words, there is no specific time of day when confusion can occur in LBD. Hallucinations are not unusual in LBD. Visual halluci(Continued on page 11)

November Trivia
By Bill Kulberg
LAST MONTH – We asked what the film was that had the main character recite lines like: “The flagon with the dragon has the brew that is true” and “The poison is in the chalice from the palace.” The main character, of course, was Danny Kaye and he spoke those lines in The Court Jester. Those who knew and responded were Carl Adler, Lyda Albuquerque, Roz Brodsky, Helen Cohen, Gil Horn and Janet Wood. SUPER DUPER – Finally found one that stumped almost everyone. With the exception of Janet Wood, nobody was able to come up with the correct answer here. The British comic actor who played a variety of parts in numerous movies, including almost all the Pink Panther films, and who wound up killing Rambo, was the prolific Graham Stark. The Rambo he killed was the mean dog in the Bruce Willis comedy, Blind Date. This droll gentleman, 90 years old as this is written, also appeared in Victor Victoria as the hapless waiter with wry remarks while taking Julie Andrews’s order early on and as a waiter in night clubs at two other times in the film. Beyond that, he was very active for years in British films, both as an actor and writer. THIS MONTH – [email protected] with trivia the subject, or 6552966. Jack Nicholson is one of only two actors to be nominated for an Academy Award in every decade from the 1960’s to the 2000’s. Who was that other? EXTRA SUPER DUPER – What major star demanded $100,000 to appear in a comedy film and then donated his entire earnings from that film to the British war effort?

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“Joyful Noise” Sunday, November 25 117 Min. - PG-13 Rated 2 (CC) and 7 p.m. Oscar nominees Queen Latifah and Dolly Parton star in a funny and inspirational story of music, hope, love and renewal. A small town in Georgia has fallen on hard times but the people are counting on the Choir to lift their spirits by winning the National Joyful Noise Competition in this light, gentle comedy. It also stars Kris Kristofferson and Dexter Darden.
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THE FORUM
Editorial
Money, Money Everywhere
By Bill Kulberg, Associate Editor
Maybe not everywhere. There are a significant number of Americans going hungry pretty much every day. Many more, while not going hungry, are forced into “modest” lifestyles. They watch ads by clothing companies to “buy one, get one free” or offering two free whatevers if you buy just one. And they have to concern themselves with withstanding the coming winter using the whatevers in their wardrobes, assuming they have wardrobes. All this in the compassionate nation that spreads foreign aid all over the world to countries with many more starving, ill-clothed citizens. The fact of that aid is admirable. It’d be pretty lousy of us to scoff at feeding so many people who can’t help themselves. Perhaps we can explain that logic to our starving, illclothed citizens. We can try, but would they understand? What they might not understand even more than foreign aid taking precedence to their needs, is the obscene amount of money spent by candidates for political office along with their allies parading under the respectable (sic) titles of Super Pacs. As you read this, well over a billion (that’s billion with a B) dollars has been raised and is being dispersed in an endless, sickening (to many) stream for the purpose of pounding away at the population, in an effort to convince them that their respective candidates will make life better for all of us, including those needy individuals mentioned in the first paragraph. Think about how impressed those folks are with all the information to which they’re being made privy, as they try to put together meals for their families. Then again, some don’t even have the TVs necessary to observe democracy in action. If these candidates and their lackeys are at all concerned, they seem not to show it at their public functions. But hey, there’s just so much time you have to speak to an audience and something has to be omitted so they don’t get too tired of listening – or perhaps before the TV time runs out. That’s understandable. Doubtless, both candidates would like nothing better than to see their potential voters nourished, at least well enough to get to the polls to vote for them. So here’s a humane idea that might accomplish the object of feeding the needy, while enabling the candidates to put up a respectable front. For every dollar personally raised by a presidential candidate, 10% should be donated to some kind of fund created to help the truly needy. For every dollar raised by a Super Pac, make that 20%. Still leaves a lot of bread to be spread to other than hungry people. And it really wouldn’t create too many hardships. Rather than luxury hotels, remember that Motel 6 leaves the light on. The number of limousines needed in those exasperatingly long convoys can be reduced by a couple. The size of the planes used can be substantially reduced. Do they really need to provide accommodations for all those annoying members of the press? Do they have to visit the “battleground” states more than a dozen times? If so, take a car. Not every meal has to be quite as expensive. An occasional McDonald’s or Wendy’s might prove a welcome change. Nedick’s or kosher hot dogs are yummy. Beer, instead of wine. Perhaps a few less TV commercials. Maybe a lot less TV commercials. How about wearing the same ties and suits a few more times. Less trips to whomever it is that makes them and their spouses look pretty. What are the chances?

All in Good Humor

By Ernie Price

Letters to the Editor
First let me say “great back page” of the October issue. It was a masterpiece! But I was very disappointed to see that our well maintained library was omitted from your list of amenities. We are 14 volunteers who give freely of our time each and every week. Joan Camposano On behalf of “Arnie’s Army Battles Prostate Cancer,” I want to thank everyone who participated in our Golf Tournament, including our sponsors, and all those who could not play, but contributed to this most worthy charity, (the number two killer of men). I would especially thank Ray Bridy, our Professional and his excellent assistants, my cochairman, Gerry Portnoy, (my number one man), Irv Rothchild for his wonderful help and also Goody Molten, and his crew from Regency. Many thanks go to Howie Appelson, for all the publicity work he did which helped make this charity affair a success! Abe Cohen Beware of a new scam! Today I received many calls (as many as five or six) from a Mr. McMillan representing “unclaimed packages.” He stated that my package is a certified check worth two and a half million dollars. A UPS man would show up at my door and present me with the check after I show him my ID and a receipt from a lottery. After saying that I don’t have a receipt, he replied that the UPS man would give me the stub. He was very persistent but would not provide me with his phone number when I asked for it. After consulting with another person on his end, he finally gave me a phony telephone number. I told him I was calling the police, as I know this is a scam but he continued to call. I left the house as I had a doctor’s appointment but I could hear the phone in my house continuing to ring. No message was left on my answering machine. What unnerved me was that he knew my name and if I saw a UPS man at my door, I probably would have opened it (until now that is). I called the Gatehouse immediately and the police afterwards. Neighbors, beware. Ruth Alber

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Doing Their Part
It was brought to my attention that in last month’s column I failed to acknowledge one of our beneficial amenities...The Library. This was not an intentional oversight on my part beNOVEMBER 2012 — PAGE 10

cause, quite frankly, I was unaware that 14 residents devote their time in maintaining the library every week. I am sure a few more activities were not mentioned. So, hats off to all those volunteers, who freely give their time...especially on the many committees and Clubhouse activities we partake in. Clearing the Air The topic I selected for my September ‘Editor’s Desk’ column was intended to zero in on a specific individual who took some severe and unjustified swipes across the

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WCOC: Our Voices Don’t Reach around the World
attracted to our media? For any number of reasons: they recognize that it is an unusual opportunity to express their creativity, state their opinions, to be seen and heard, educate others, entertain our residents, and master various technical skills. What is particularly satisfying about this is the sense of accomplishment at the completion of a project and there it is on the air. Our families are impressed, and take pride in what we do. They say we make retirement look interesting. If you’re a live wire, think of joining us. You’ll make a good connection! We meet every Friday at 10:15 a.m.

WCOC-TV held its annual breakfast recently at a local diner. More than 25 talented staffers, including Trustees Bill Lefko and Al Blumenfeld, liaisons. Yvette Lederman and Emely Cook, co-chairs, arranged all the satisfactory details.
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By Yvette Lederman
They are exclusively for you, often about you, or things of concern to you. You can’t say that about any other TV station. You’d have to be hit by a tornado to get their attention! Although some are generous with their praise for our efforts, more feedback would be useful and help us to bring you more of the kind of programs

you enjoy. So call, write - do something! We can take it! We need people willing to appear on the following programs: “Spotlight On A Concordian,” “A Veteran’s Story,” “Trivia,” “Historically Speaking,” and “Off The Cuff.” You do not need to be a member to participate. (We’ve met some terrific people on our programs.) Why were our members

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nations are more pronounced when the person is most confused. They are not necessarily frightening to the person. Other modalities of hallucinations include sound, taste, smell and touch. Alzheimer’s disease symptoms include a progressive loss of recent memory; problems with language, calculation, abstract thinking and judgment; depression or anxiety; personality and behavioral changes. Lewy Body Dementia (LBD) is an umbrella term for a form of dementia that has three common presentations. Some individuals will start out with a memory or cognitive disorder that may resemble Alzheimer’s disease, but over time two or more distinctive features become apparent leading to the diagnosis of “dementia with Lewy bodies” (DLB). Symptoms that differentiate it from Alzheimer’s include unpredictable levels of cognitive ability, attention or alertness, changes in walking or movement, visual hallucinations, a sleep disorder, and severe sensitivity to medications for hallucinations. In some cases, the sleep disorder can precede the dementia. Others will start out with a movement disorder leading to the diagnosis of Parkinson’s disease and later develop dementia and other symptoms common in DLB. Lastly, a small group will first present with neuropsychiatric symptoms, which can include hallucinations, behavioral problems, and difficulty with complex mental activities, leading to an initial diagnosis of DLB. Regardless of the initial symptom, over time all three presentations of LBD will develop very similar cognitive,
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physical, sleep and behavioral features, all caused by the presence of Lewy bodies throughout the brain. Vascular dementia is caused by a series of small strokes that deprive the brain of vital oxygen. Symptoms, such as disorientation in familiar locations; walking with rapid, shuffling steps; incontinence; laughing or crying inappropriately; difficulty following instructions and problems handling money may appear suddenly and worsen with additional strokes. High blood pressure, cigarette smoking, and high cholesterol are some of the risk factors for stroke that may be controlled to prevent vascular dementia. Years ago this was called “hardening of the arteries.” Physical therapy options include cardiovascular, strengthening and flexibility exercises, as well as gait training. Physicians may also recommend general physical fitness programs such as aerobic, strengthening, or water exercise. Occupational therapy may help maintain skills and promote function and independence Support groups may be helpful for caregivers and persons with LBD to identify practical solutions to day-to-day frustrations, and to obtain emotional support from others. This information is to introduce you to the term Lewy Body Dementia, and it is not all-inclusive. It is important to get an adequate evaluation if you think you or a loved one’s memory is slipping. Wishing you well. Seminar November 13, 1:30 p.m. Topic: How to Keep Healthy in the winter. Speaker: Dr. S. Goldberg, Internist Please register with the Concierge. Light refreshments served.
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Aromas from Your Kitchen
By Adrienne Fein
Autumn is a great season for cooking. The chill is in the air; the fall produce in the stores; and the bounty of the harvest is ready to enjoy. So many delicious foods are available for Thanksgiving and family dinners. Be careful not to gobble ‘til you wobble.’ Enjoy the warmth and tastiness of the goodies but let the turkey be the only thing that is stuffed. A taste of everything leaves room for dessert. Here is a different starter and finisher for your meal. Soup…to…nuts. Sweet Potato Soup 10 Cups 2 cloves garlic, minced 1 large sweet onion, cut into chunks 2 stalks celery, cut up 1 tblsp. olive oil 4 carrots, sliced 3 medium sweet potatoes, coarsely chopped or cut up 8 cups chicken broth 2 tblsp. fresh basil 2 tblsp. fresh dill 2 tblsp. fresh lemon juice 1 tblsp. sugar free maple syrup 1 tblsp. grated ginger Mince garlic and ginger and set aside. Place onion and celery in a blender and chop coarsely. Heat oil in a soup pot. Add onion and celery to oil and cook until tender (about 6-7 minutes). Add a spoonful of water, if necessary, to keep ingredients from sticking to the pot. Add carrot slices, garlic and ginger to the mixture in the soup pot and cook for 3 minutes. Add sweet potatoes, broth and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer (partially covered) for about 30 minutes. Puree the soup. Add minced basil, dill, lemon

juice and maple syrup to the soup and mix well. [Note: This recipe can be made three days ahead of time and kept in the refrigerator.] Chocolate Chip Nut Roll-Ups Makes 3 dozen cookies 1/3 cup sweet butter, softened 1 (3 ounce) package cream cheese, softened 3/4 cup all-purpose flour 18 walnut halves 1/2 cup chocolate chips 1/4 cup candied cherry halves Powdered sugar Mix butter and cream cheese. Stir in flour until soft dough forms. Cover and refrigerate until firm (at least 8 hours). Heat oven to 375 degrees F. Roll dough into a rectangle about 9 x 12 inches on a cloth covered board generously sprinkled with powdered sugar. Cut dough into 3 x 1 inch pieces. Place a 1/2 walnut on each end of the rectangle; 2 chips and a cherry halve in the center; rollup, beginning at 1 inch end. Pinch end and sides to seal. Place on ungreased cookie sheet with seam side down. Bake about 17 minutes or until golden brown. Cool before serving.

A Life-Saving Transplant
By Burt W. Sheier
Emily Sheier, a resident of Concordia, was honored at a recent luncheon celebrating the 2nd anniversary of the liver transplant that saved her life. Family and friends gathered at Baker’s American Grille, in Monroe Township, to mark this milestone. Emily, a retired kindergarten teacher, and her husband, Burt, both natives of Brooklyn, NY, were residents of Staten Island for 33 years and have lived in Concordia since June 2011. Emily was diagnosed with Primary Biliary Cirrhosis (an autoimmune disease) in 1995 and, for the next 15 years, battled the disease. During the summer of 2010, Emily’s condition dramatically worsened and she was classified as having endstage liver disease. On September 25, 2010, at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York, she was saved from imminent death by a superb medical team, an anonymous organ donor and his/her family. This donor’s organs also saved numerous other patients on the same day. Emily knows nothing of the person who, in death, gave her a re-birth. At the celebration Burt gave thanks to her liver donor. To the donor’s family, he said: “Thank you and may your grief be just a bit easier knowing that your loved one lives on in my Emily.” Burt also urged the guests: “Be a Hero – Be an Organ Donor.” It should also be noted that the family’s gratitude to the donor is to be commemorated by a brick at the New Monroe Township Senior Center and by tributes at the National Donor Memorial in Richmond, VA. A Tribute to Emily may be viewed on line at: http:// www.donormemorial.org/ tributes/tribute_display.php? tribute_id=2532.

Clubhouse Dress Code
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The Mayor’s Message
By Richard Pucci, Mayor Township of Monroe

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Department of Public Works
The leaves are still falling, and before you know it winter will be here and with it ice and snow. So who collects the fallen branches and leaves? The same people that plow the Township roadways: the Monroe Township Department of Public Works. We are proud of our DPW who throughout the year works to maintain our Township Roads, parks, buildings and so much more. Throughout October and November the DPW collects the leaves and brush that fall in autumn. This yard waste, along with grass clippings, must be placed in brown biodegradable bags before being placed curbside. The bags can be picked up at no charge at the DPW Recycling Center at 76 Gravel Hill Spotswood Road. The DPW also wants to remind residents that with winter approaching, residents should be mindful if snow is in the forecast, and try to follow these 10 hints to help them clear the roads more easily: • Park all cars if possible in your driveway when snow is in the forecast. • Please pull basketball hoops off the road if pos-

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keep off the roads when plow trucks are in the area. Please advise children to make “forts” in your yard not by the road side. This can be very dangerous! When driving try to give the plow trucks plenty of room. Sometimes it is difficult for the drivers to see and the trucks can slide. When shoveling or snow blowing please refrain from throwing snow in the road. Make sure all garbage and recycling cans are off the road. Please shovel out an area

around fire hydrants so our Fire Department can get to it in case of an emergency. • If you have to finish shoveling your driveway before the road is completely cleared, try to shovel a flared out end. When the plow returns to widen the roadway, it only puts a minimum amount of snow back in your driveway. • Give your plow guy a smile or a wave; they are working hard with long hours to make sure your streets are safe. In addition, the DPW also runs and maintains the Recycling Drop-Off Center. Residents can drop items,

including, newspapers tied in bundles, mixed paper, cardboard, glass bottles, aluminum/steel/tin cans, #1 and #2 plastic containers, motor oil, anti-freeze, auto batteries, scrap metal and broken or outdated consumer electronic items. The items can be dropped off Monday - Friday, 8 a.m. - 3 p.m. and Saturdays 8 a.m. 11:30 a.m. It is closed Sundays and holidays. Proof of residency is required. For further information you can contact DPW at 732-6564575. The DPW works hard to keep Monroe Township a safe, clean, green community.

Election Outcome a Nail Biter, Topic of LWV Luncheon
By Ruth Banks
The League of Women Voters of Monroe Twp. anticipates an in-depth analysis of the Presidential election at its annual Holiday Happening luncheon on November 12 at the Forsgate Country Club. The guest speaker will be Ingrid Reed, well known policy analyst formerly with the Eagleton Institute of Politics at Rutgers University. No matter which way the election goes, Ms. Reed noted, there will be a lot to talk about. The luncheon will begin at noon and the cost is $32. Space is limited and members are urged to make their reservations forthwith. Ms. Reed has had a wide range of experience in state politics and planning, governance and community affairs, both as a professional and as a volunteer. She is a founding board member of New Jersey Future, and serves on the board of NJSpotlight.com, a recently created civic journalism website designed to provide news coverage about critical issues shaping the state and its communities. While at Eagleton and as director of the New Jersey Project, she focused on encouraging voter participation and confidence in elections and government. Before joining the Eagleton Institute, she served as vice-president for public affairs and corporate secretary of The Rockefeller University in New York City. As assistant dean of Princeton University’s Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs, she also directed the Rockefeller Public Service Awards Program. Her knowledge of the state and her insights into politics have made her a well-known name on the op -ed pages of area newspapers. She has a wide audiTHE CONCORDIAN

ence among League members and is frequently a guest speaker at meetings and workshops. The League of Women Voters is a nonpartisan political organization with state and national affiliations. The League is open to men as well as women, and strives to educate its members and the general public about national, state and local issues. It neither supports nor opposes candidates for public office, but does take positions on public policy issues. For more information about the League or the luncheon, please contact Ruth Banks at 609-655-4791 or Judy Perkus at 609-395-1552.

Pet Owner Reminder
Pet Droppings must be picked up by the pet owner and disposed of in the owner’s trash receptacle. Do Not put the droppings in any of Concordia’s storm drains. Contents of storm drains empty into Concordia ponds. Storm drains Do Not empty into the public sewer system. Be concerned of everyone’s health. Use the proper receptacle. Be healthy. Be safe every day. Thank You Concordia Security Committee

Safety for
Walkers
Walk against the traffic, single file and be alert. If you walk on the sidewalk, direction is your choice. When walking at night go bright, reflective or lit up. Being seen is being safe. Thank You Concordia Security Committee
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Astronomy/ Science Club
By Mildred Goodwin
On Thursday, November 15 at 7:30 p.m., the Astronomy/Science Club will be meeting in the Regency Room at the Clubhouse. Our topic for the evening will be a departure from astronomy. Instead we will explore the earth and Rosemary DregerCarey, distinguished scientist and representative from the New Jersey Public Policy Network will be our guest. The topic is “Fracturing the Earth for New Energy Sources.” We will learn about a new system for extracting natural gas from under the earth. All of us are aware of the need of sources for energy in our society and Ms. Dreger-Carey will be able to give us important and new information. Long ago, there were peo-

ple who actually believed the Earth was hollow — a thin outer shell and a void in the center. Indeed, there were/ are those individuals who say that creatures from outer space live there. In the 1960s, the Congress of the United States was considering legislation to finance the drilling of a test well under the ocean in an effort to penetrate the ocean floor and sample the underlying material. There was much opposition from concerned citizens who believed that if such a hole were bored, it would “unplug the stop,” and the ocean’s water would drain away into the middle of the earth! But do not worry, the legislation was never passed and earth is still where it is supposed to be. There really is so much to learn about planet earth and so we shall on November 15. We look

forward to greeting all our members and other interested Concordians. Please remain for delicious light refreshments and convivial conversation after the meeting.

Brandeis
By Betty Rosenberg
Friday, November 2 Brandeis will be departing at 9 a.m. for the Barnes Art Museum in Center City, Philadelphia, PA. After we arrive we will be at the historical Reading Terminal Market where we will have lunch (on our own) from 11 a.m. to 12:15 p.m. Then we will be off to the museum to arrive about 12.30 p.m., where we may explore until our lecture/ self-guided tour begins at 1:30 p.m. and depart for home at 3:40 p.m. At our regular meeting on Thursday, November 15 at 1:30 p.m. our movie expert, Mildred Goodwin, will show a classic, highly rated movie. The romantic, historical movie will be “Anastasia” staring Ingrid Bergman, for which she won the Academy Award as Best Dramatic Actress. Of course refreshments will be available and please remember to bring donations for the Food Pantry to this meeting. Thank you. Come and enjoy a wonderful movie, refreshments and great talk. Please hold all these dates open for future events: Wednesday, December 12 for our Holiday Luncheon at Carlucci Italian Restaurant. Thursday, January 17, 2013, Annual Card Party.

Congregation Beit Shalom
As the High Holiday Season ends, the days get shorter every day, and we wave goodbye to our friends and neighbors leaving for their southern residences. The good news is that things go on in our Synagogue (Beit Shalom) all year and we welcome all to our “Haimish Place.” Shabbat Services are on November 3, 10, 17 and 24 at 9 a.m. The Oneg Shabbat will be on Friday, November 9 at 7:30 p.m. sponsored by our very own Sisterhood. The Men’s Club Breakfast will be Sunday, November 11 at 9:30 a.m. There will be a very interesting film “Jewish Soldiers in Blue and Gray — Faith under Fire in the American Civil War.” The film is narrated by John Milius with the voice of President Lincoln by Sam Waterston. Sisterhood will have their Board Meeting Monday, November 12 at 1 p.m. and are in the planning stages for an event late in November. Our active Education Committee has a special presentation on Wednesday, November 7 at 7:30 p.m. There will be a play reading “A
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Quiet War” by Neil Simon. The play will star Cantor Eli Perlman and Morty Schneider. Don’t miss this one. There will be a discussion led by Cantor Perlman following the performance. We are firming up arrangements for our Chanukah Party Saturday evening, December 15 at 7:30 p.m. We will have the fabulous and versatile Ricky Penn entertaining. She sings in 16 languages with her very melodious voice. The cost is $12 for the entertainment and delicious snacks. Contact the Synagogue as soon as possible. Each year there is a Kristallnacht Commemoration at the New Jersey State House. This year it is on Wednesday evening, November 14. We will again have a bus to participate in that commemoration. We usually have the largest group attending. Please call the office at 609-395-1952 and let us know if you would like to be on the bus which leaves from the Wells Fargo Bank parking lot at 5:!5 p.m. We need to know in advance if we will need one bus or two this year. New Jersey is the only state in the union that has this remembrance of Kristallnacht. You do not have to be a member to get on the free buses. We wish all a very wonderful and delicious Thanksgiving with the warmth of your family around you.

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By Jim Fiorello Question: What does Thanksgiving mean to you?

Doris Axelrod Ethan Allen Drive OH Boy! It’s that time of year again. It means a lot of pleasant work: shopping, planning a menu, cooking and baking. It’s all about happy times and getting together with family and friends. Most of all “thankful” to be living in the great country AMERICA.

John Aldana, George Washington Dr. Thanksgiving is a time to be grateful for the blessings of life: my wife, children, grandchildren and the many friends I have made in this very friendly, active adult community of Concordia. Wishing everyone a very Happy Thanksgiving. Eat, drink and be happy.

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Oh, Those Crazy Chorale People
By Jack Galin
A Conversation: Stranger: Say, did you hear about that crazy Concordia Chorale? Me: No, why, what’s the matter. Stranger: I think they really went off the deep end. They decided to do a program of “Three B’s; Berlin, Bacharach and Beatles.” Me: You mean they are not going to do just one composer or just one show. Stranger: That’s what I hear. And wait till I tell you their program and how they got to it. It’ll knock your socks off. Me: Tell me; tell me. Stranger: Seems there was this lady, Irma Levy, who complained that a program of only Irving Berlin was too old; too sedate. She spoke to David, their Director; and then to Red, their President and then to Jack, the VP (she didn’t give up so easily) and finally convinced their Board to reach out to a wider, younger audience. Me: And what about their program? Stranger: Not only is it terrific but they tell me that they are having fun rehearsing and singing! Me: So, tell me. Stranger: Well, from Berlin: “Always;” “Alexander’s Ragtime Band;” “Sisters;” “Blue Skies;” “God Bless America;” “Oh How I Hate To Get Up In The Morning” (among several
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others); From Bacharach: “Raindrops Keep Falling On My Head;” “The Look Of Love;” “Do You Know The Way To San Jose;” “That’s What Friends Are For;” “What The World Needs Now;” “I Say A Little Prayer” (among several others). Me: What about the Beatles? Stranger: Another knockout. “Imagine,” “Yesterday,” “Hey Jude;” “I Wanna Hold Your Hand;” “Michelle;” “Oobla Dee;” “When I’m Sixty Four” (among many others!). Me: Sounds like they’ll sell out before the tickets go on sale. Stranger: You gotta hand it to the Chorale. They are always trying to do something different; different but better!

Christian Fellowship of Concordia
By Ann Adams
A lot of us have a lot to be thankful for. We are thankful for our family, friends and neighbors. Happiness is having these familiar connections in our existence, whether near or far, and the opportunity to look forward to and be thankful for them. As Americans, we take pride in cultivating our relationships with those we feel akin with. It is comparable to farmers when they harvest their crops and reap the rewards of what they have garnered. We enjoy the accomplishments of our children and grandchildren, as well as our friends and neighbors. And, because we live in a country that is filled with a strong pride and the freedom to express it, we are given the opportunity to partake in our government’s politics and the process of its elections. Whatever our opinions, we are able to voice them in an open forum, without fear or prejudice. This brings a whole new meaning to thankfulness. It allows us the contentment to know how privileged we are to be given this liberty. Because the holiday of Thanksgiving is in November, we associate this month as being warm and lovable. It is a perfect time to communicate our thanks to everyone we hold dear to our hearts. And, as the days and years continue on, we realize there are added blessings on why we can perceive our cup half-full rather than half empty. Through these years, we have all encountered our share of good fortune, whether from love, wealth or health. However, everyone would agree that a person’s wealth can be measured by the loyalty of his or her family and, friends. When we experience the miraculous birth of a newborn or even witness a tree change its hues, thankfulness is accompanied by humbleness. Our Christian Fellowship Organization allows us plenty of occasions to be thankful. We are given the chance to mingle with friends and neighbors who have become this organization’s family. The following events are just examples of the “family” getting together and thankfully given the occasion to get out and have a lot of fun: Bingo Night November 21 Christmas/New Year’s Holiday Party December The Christian Fellowship Organization would like to thank every member for their past and continued support as well as wish everyone a Happy, Healthy and Blessed Thanksgiving Holiday.

By Len Solomon

Computer Club

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Thanks to a dedicated group of volunteers on our Health Committee, the flu shot program ran very smoothly. Marlene Ziselman at the registration table (1) explains the procedure as she signs in a resident. Jannette Ray (2) smiles through her pneumonia vaccine inoculation administered by members of the Middlesex County Vocational LPN program. Elizabeth Joseph (3) receives her flu shot as a steady stream of residents kept the student nurses busy that October day. Terry Dowling and Hannah Piskin (4) relax after donating blood at our annual Joan Daum Memorial Blood Drive as our volunteers look on. Cecila Ferrazzano (5) happily relaxes in the indoor spa while Ruth Harrison (6) relaxes in a different manner reading at the Clubhouse library. The “Boys of Summer: The Incomparable Story of the 1950s Brooklyn Dodgers” was presented by Dr. James P. Kane (7) at the Monroe Township Library. Residents Roland Deschaine, Sol Mix and (standing) Bill Kulberg, a Concordian editor, (8) attended the fast-paced lecture. Dr. Kane, currently an adjunct professor of education at William Paterson U., brought back many memories for the audience filled with Brooklyn fans. At the annual Condo Olympic award ceremony winning participants received their medals. Gold medal recipients included members of the Ladies Tennis team and our Shuffleboard champs. Miriam Montero, left, and Barbara Cammeyer (9) are holding their medals. Missing are Harriet Brown and Renee Gladstone. Shuffleboard winners (10), seated from left, are Jerry Lory, Harry Frankenberg, Charlie Ciraulo, Sandy Hamel, Max Mandis. Standing, Harold Goldstein, Bert Mertzel, Harvey Cohen, Kathleen Arnone, Herb Picker, Lou Heisler. Photos by Mort Perlman, Ray Kaufman and Barbara Goodman

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Deborah Hospital
By Sunny Leebaw
In the spirit of Thanksgiving, the Concordia Chapter of Deborah Hospital extends its heartfelt thanks to all its volunteers. Your conscientious efforts and contributions go above and beyond and truly make a difference in people’s lives. Your health and well-being are important to the hospital. If you are connected to the internet, they encourage you to sign up for Deborah’s Heartlink, a free monthly Newsletter featuring the latest medical news and wellness tips. Just follow these few easy steps: The website is www.deborah.org Click on Get eHeartlink Newsletter today, found on the home page Click on Free eHeartlink newsletter! on the left side of the page Type in your name and email address in the fields and click Submit Form You will receive your monthly e-newsletter. Don’t forget the Atlantic City trip on Wednesday, November 7 at the Showboat Hotel. Call Fran and Charlie Koppelman at 655-3111 for reservations.

Regency Room. Bill Biega, who has been a computer geek for many, many years, and has his own (well worth visiting) website, will present a program featuring the “History of Computers and Computing.” It should be an interesting and informative evening. In addition, if time allows, there will be a Random Access Session. So in the time you have between now and the meeting, be sure to make a list of computer related questions or problems you have,. We’ll try to help where we can. Further information will follow by email. As usual, all Concordia residents are invited to attend this meeting as guests of the Club, so invite your friends. In the meantime, remember to check Cable Channel 3 often. Now for the “Web Site Of The Month.” It is “MayoClinic.com.” The Mayo Clinic is one of the greatest hospitals and research centers on planet earth. In that tradition, the Mayo Clinic provides this excellent website devoted to the promotion of human health. As you know, we also stay in touch with Club members via email. If you change your email address be sure to notify Jerry Entin at [email protected].

He did it again! Jerry Grossfield produced another endearing poster. This time promoting “Singng in the Rain” for the Players annual performance.
Photo by B. Goodman

The Concordia Players
By Emely Cook
Hooray to the Concordia Players for another successful production – “Singin’ In The Rain, Hooray for Hollywood!” I hope you enjoyed this wonderful musical with the dancing, the comedy and its great story. This year I was not in the show and finally saw the production from the audience side and not the stage. I found Eleanor Abati great in the roll of Lina Lamont, the beautiful actress with the horrible voice. She was really abused by those producers and directors. I felt so sorry for her when she sang the song “What’s Wrong with Me?” Then we have Seymour Peterman and Esther Drucker as the famous star and the new comer who were just right for each other - isn’t love grand? Frank Ponisi and Abe Cohen as R.F. Simpson and Cosmo Brown also did a fantastic job presenting this great musical. Congratulations to the lovely ladies of the Dancing Ensemble. They danced and they sang beautifully. Helping them was the regular ensemble and women’s chorus. And I must not forget the men’s chorus. Each and every one of them doing their very best to make this show the success it was. The back stage crew did a great job of keeping the show on schedule, so, thank you Alice Pollard, Sandy Adase and Izzy Horowitz for keeping everyone on their toes. A good crew makes the show. Most of all I want to thank all the Concordia residents who come year in and year out to see our productions. You all make it worthwhile and we will always do our best to give you an enjoyable evening or afternoon. So all that being said, we look forward to seeing you all next October for another special production by the Concordia Players! Bye for now.

Hadassah
By Anita Brewer
Monroe Township Chapter of Hadassah will hold its next meeting on Monday afternoon, November 12 at 1 p.m. at Beit Shalom. The guest speaker will be Ms. Muriel Hertan, NGO (NonGovernmental Organization) representative to the United Nations. Her topic will be “Lesser Known Jewish Communities of the World” e.g. Morocco, Bulgaria, Turkey and Greece. This should be not only interesting but enlightening too. Please join us and bring a prospective member. Refreshments will be served. Our fabulous Annual Gala — Dairy Buffet Breakfast and Card Party will be held Thursday, November 15 at 11:30 a.m. at Forsgate Country Club. Cost is $25 per person. Still time to make a last-minute reservation. Please Call Anita P. at 8601609 or Anita B. at 3957535. Proceeds to Hadassah Medical Research. There has been a change of plans! Our Book Club which was previously expected to resume in October, has been temporarily postponed until further notice. Looking Ahead: We are planning a Chanukah Boutique for our December meeting plus “Freilach” entertainment by The Jewbadors. Mark the date on your calendar – December 10. Our First Winter Fashion Show will take place on Sun(Continued on page 19)

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day, February 24 at Waterside Villas. It will be presented by Bon Worth. Models needed. Please note: General meetings for the months of November, December and March and April will take place in the afternoons.

Jewish War Veterans Post 609
By Bernie Passer,
On Sunday, November 4, JWV’s guest speaker will be Sgt. Major Len Myersohn (retired), Director, NJ National Guard Readiness Council. He will discuss the activities of this important body, which assists National Guard families in need of assistance. As you may recall, we donate funds to the Council for this worthy effort. Sgt. Meyersohn is new on the job, having replaced Linda Reith, wife of retired General Reith. This general membership meeting is held in the Concordia Party Room. The doors will open at 9:30 a.m. with the call to order at 10 a.m. In addition to our existing regular and patron members, we welcome all interested eligible veterans and patrons to attend. Their spouses and significant others are always welcome. We will have a breakfast of bagels, spreads, cake and coffee. Our Funding Disbursement Plan for this Fiscal Year has been approved. The recipients are the NJ National Guard, The Veterans Home in Menlo Park, recently wounded military personnel at the Walter Reed National Medical Hospital in Bethesda, MD, Ft. Dix/McGuire/ Lakehurst Naval bases, Lyons Veterans Hospital, Chaplains Fund, National Museum of American Jewish Military History, and the West Point Chapel. We expect to have additional recipients in the next few months. We raise funds for these donations only through our Poppy Drive, so please support it and volunteer to help. The 2012/2013 fiscal year

membership drive has been successful to date. So I am repeating the following message as we approach the fifth month of this special initiative. * *Important Announcement* * Our general membership has approved a new dues policy for all new Veteran and new Patron members to cover the 2012/2013 Fiscal Year period. The fee will be $10 in lieu of the regular fee of $40. For those not familiar with Patron membership, it covers male and female nonveterans and Jewish and non -Jewish individuals. Please contact Charlie Koppelman, membership chairman, 655-3111 or Woody Schlackman, quartermaster, at 655-4792 for further information and application forms. Post members please leave your dues payment at the Concordia Concierge desk or send it to Woody Schlackman at 3A John Adams Court, Monroe Township, NJ 08831. We serve all veterans and active military personnel regardless of race, gender or religious preference.

Eat.” This will be especially helpful for the upcoming holiday as she shares with us her personal experience from farm to kitchen. It’s time to subscribe to our Wednesday matinee series of the American Ballet Theater at the Met. Contact either Sylvia Aidikoff (655-5108) or Phyllis Rubenfeld (860-1165) for all of the particulars and to secure a ticket. Don’t forget our lovely happening cards. Call Pearl Kipnees (655-7511) or Lorraine Rofsky (395-0235) for cards to go out for a celebration, get-well wishes or condolences.

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National Council of Jewish Women
By Adrienne Fein
Throughout its 115-year history, NCJW has demonstrated a profound commitment to improving the quality of life for all. While this commitment has taken a variety of forms over the years, central to it is the belief that democratic society must fulfill its obligation to provide for the needs of those unable to provide for themselves. As such, NCJW advocates for human services that are coordinated, comprehensive, accessible, and sufficiently funded. Your membership in our group helps to support these commitments. At this time of the year in particular, we ask you to bring a nonperishable food item or paper goods to our meeting for the food pantry. Join us on November 13, 7:30 p.m. in the Regency Room for our general meeting. Fran McManus will share with you “Good Foods to

Happy Thanksgiving to all Concordians and their families - hope the coming year is full of good food and good luck. ORT’s forthcoming events are just as interesting and enjoyable - such as: Our Holiday Party is Monday, November 19 at 12:30 p.m. at the Silver Spoon Restaurant off Rt. 130; and remember to bring a grab bag gift between $5 and $10, members only. In the spring — A theater party at Kelsey Theater play to be determined and details will be forthcoming. In May, our successful Game and Card party. In May - We are working on a trip to a concert at the Performing Art Center. We will let you know when the details are completed. And in July - We are working on arranging a program featuring an exciting Israeli dance group of students who perform with such excitement and gusto that we will be enthralled. In October - Another super Game and Card Party. In March -We are working on a day at a Spa In June - Our Appreciation Luncheon. So, you see, for only $36 a year, you can, if you haven’t already, join ORT to become a member and join us at these events. Make out a check to ORT America, bring
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it to the Clubhouse, give it to the Concierge to be placed in the ORT envelope, Attn: Lenore Galin. ORT Concordia offers a variety of tribute cards to members and their families. Please call Esther Berk at (609) 395-8238 to send an ORT card for any occasion and leave the check and request in an envelope marked ORT - Attn: Esther Berk to the Concierge to be placed in the ORT envelope. ORT America supports World ORT’s global network of schools and hightech training programs that provides cutting-edge curriculum and strategic educational initiatives to empower 300,000 students and beneficiaries annually in 62 countries to become productive citizens and lead their families and communities forward. Have a great holiday.

The Rock n Rollers monthly meeting was a perfect place for “newlyweds” Ellen and Irv Krantz to celebrate 50 years together. While Florence and Harry Gutmaker own the dance floor.
Photo by Ray Kaufman

Rock N Rollers
By Sandi Greenspan and Barbara Lauster The RnRer’s 7th Birthday Party was the icing on the cake! The crowd was certainly ready to party, and

party they did! Gary Morton, our DJ for the evening, was his usual accommodating and entertaining self with music that you could dance to, cuddle up with your favorite date to bring back those fond memories of years passed, jump, hop, spin, whatever and the crowd did it all! The delicious Tiramisu cakes were enjoyed by all as sweet craving delights. The beautiful mums centerpieces were given to someone at each table to enjoy the warmth they bring to the season and your home. The team of people that make the RnRers the party makers they are were introduced. A group of 30 people that work at making each party a night to remember and then some. Obviously we are very appreciative of the many talents of this group and the Club’s commitment to making each event better than the next. I hope you are all getting ready for our annual gala Holiday Party on Saturday, December 15. A wonderful hot dinner will be served at each table. Our featured band is...A Sound Affair whom we have had numerous times. Lots of fun and surprises are in store for you. If you haven’t gotten your check in, do it now so you don’t miss out on this special event to celebrate the holidays and welcome in 2013. We have another wonderful year to look forward to. Some special entertainment is already booked and 2013 is going to be an awesome party year. Lots of new entertainment, theme parties, good food, and the love and energy of our Rock n Roller family. If you are not a member, it’s never too late to have a good time. Only $15 for membership will be the best bucks you ever spent! With the ups and downs we are dealt in life…the Rock n Rollers will always assure you of an evening of fun, laughs, camaraderie, and love each and every month. Be there and be a part of the good times! Flyers and membership applications will always be found on the rack in back of Clubhouse.
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Bocce Players Are Winners
Concordia’s Bocce Team won its division and finished runner-up in the Mayor’s Cup Tournament at Thompson Park. Team members are (kneeling, from left) Karen Teichman and Marilyn Finneran; (standing, from left) Billy Grebbin, John Aldana, Tony D’Ausilio, Pat Finneran, Ron Greco, Herb Picker, Mike Biondo, Manny Silverman, Sal Babino and Roland Deschaine.
Photo by Ernie Price

Women’s Bowling High Game and High Series
For the Month of September Concordia Nite Owls Tuesday Night League Week of September 4: High Game - Linda Tokarz 170, High Series - Linda Tokarz 460 Week of September 11: High Game - Linda Tokarz 181, High Series - Linda Tokarz 453 Week of September 18: High Game - Barbara Price 168, High Series - Barbara Price 491 Concordia Seniors Monday Morning League Week of September 3: High Game - Adele Kelsey 159, High Series - Flo Weinstein 424 Week of September 10: High Game - Carolyn Gottlieb 166, High Series Carolyn Gottlieb 434 Week of September 24: High Game - Joan Kirschenbaum 150, High Series - Joan Kirschenbaum 390

Men’s Bowling High Game and High Series
For the Month of September Concordia Nite Owls Tuesday Night League Week of September 4: High Game - Paul Parren 202, High Series - Paul Parren 517 Week of September 11: High Game - Ernie Price 211, High Series - Ernie Price 562 Week of September 18: High Game - Stu Geller 203, High Series - Irv Wilcox 533 Concordia Seniors Monday Morning League Week of September 3: High Game - Harold Barr 187, High Series - Bob Lombardi 510 Week of September 10: High Game - Bob Lombardi 183, High Series Bob Lombardi 516 Week of September 24: High Game - George Feldman 201, High Series George Feldman 542

Ladies 18 Hole Golf Club
By Emily Cartolano
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Singles
By Jean Goldberg
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Men’s Golf Association
By Howard Appelson
Congratulations to the winners of the September tournaments: September 13 — FourMan Scramble Tournament The team of Don Corson, Bob Norman, Frank Portera and Tom Tighe won with a very nice score of 69. The team of Howie Appelson, Bill Bodnar, Bob Piznar and Jerry Raddock did not win, but I wanted to mention their names anyway. September 19 — Arnie’s Army Battles Prostate Cancer Abe Cohen, Gerry Portnoy and Irv Rothchild all worked very, very hard to make this annual fund-raiser a success. Men and women, residents and non-residents, all played to raise money to help fight prostate cancer. The hole-inone challenge on the par 3 was won — as usual — by nobody. In 1999, Golf Digest reported, “One insurance company puts a PGA Tour pro’s chances at 1 in 3,756 and an amateur’s at 1 in 12,750.” So what the heck do they expect from us? My computations reveal that we still have 8,371 more chances left to beat the odds. Most important of all, we raised over $3,000 for this important charity. “Thank you!” to all of you who played and/or contributed; you are special people. Next year we are hoping to make this a golf course sponsored event.

Parren, Sherwood Top Keglers
The Concordia Nite Owls Summer League high average bowlers are Paul Parren (189) and Irene Sherwood (157).
Photo by Ernie Price

Marty Fried shows good form sharpening his game at the Billiard table.
Photo by Barbara Goodman

This Has Nothing To Do with Golf
(But It’s Funny)
By Howard Appelson
Lawrence Peter Berra played Major League Baseball for 19 years for the New York Yankees. Here are 23 Yogi Berra quotes that will make you shake your head and smile. “It’s like deja vu all over again.” “We made too many wrong mistakes.” “You can observe a lot just by watching.” “A nickel ain’t worth a dime anymore.” “He hits from both sides of the plate. He’s amphibious.” “If the world was perfect, it wouldn’t be.” “If you don’t know where you’re going, you might end up some place else.” Responding to a question about remarks attributed to him that he did not think were his: “I really didn’t say everything I said.” “The future ain’t what it used to be.” “I think Little League is wonderful. It keeps the kids out of the house.” On why he no longer went to Ruggeri’s, a St. Louis restaurant: “Nobody goes there anymore because it’s too crowded.” “I always thought that record would stand until it was broken.” “We have deep depth.” “All pitchers are liars or crybabies.” When giving directions to Joe Garagiola to his New Jersey home, which is accessible by two routes: “When you come to a fork in the road, take it.” “Always go to other people’s funerals, otherwise they won’t come to yours.” “Never answer anonymous letters.” On being the guest of honor at an awards banquet: “Thank you for making this day necessary.” “The towels were so thick there I could hardly close my suitcase.” “Half the lies they tell about me aren’t true.” As a general comment on baseball: “90% of the game is half mental.” “I don’t know (if they were men or women running naked across the field). They had bags over their heads.” “It gets late early out there.”
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Pink” golf outing and luncheon. We were able to support breast cancer research and awareness with a very generous contribution toward “the cure.” We played many competitive and fun golf tournaments this season, and we have a new Club Champion, Jean Catanese. During the month of September we had the following tournaments and winners: September 6: Best 9 of 18 First Place - Edith Rolnik; Second Place - Phyllis Cohen September 13: First Round Little Ringers A and B Flight leader Jean Catanese; C Flight leader - Millie Perlow September 20: Second Round Little Ringers Low Gross - Irene Czop Low Net - Sue Miller and Jean Catanese The Ladies 18 Hole Golf members enjoyed this season’s closing luncheon on October 11 at Fresco’s Steak and Seafood Grill. Prizes were awarded and fond good -byes were shared among friends heading south for the winter.
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Subway Snapshots
By Sid Kallner
At the close of the nineteenth century, New York began its metamorphosis from a city to a metropolis with the help of hundreds of miles of elevated train lines that were being converted from steam locomotion to electrified third rail. And the digging of the subway lines that tunneled under the boroughs was under way. Though this achievement paved the way for most of the modern, urban, surface transportation we have today, my memories of this breakthrough are far less technological than they are nostalgic, for they bring to mind stories of my growing up. I don’t believe I could now find my way around New York via this network of trains. For one thing, the alphabet designations for the different lines might as well be Greek for all the help it would provide. Unfortunately, it’s not how I remember it. Yet I do recall with certainty, as a 10 year-old, climbing the stairs of the Simpson Street station in the Bronx - just a couple blocks from my home - to position myself next to the change booth, with “pishke” (alms can) in hand soliciting contributions from people for the Jewish National Fund. Those transit nickels added up and I was heralded as one of the more prolific fund raisers in my Hebrew School. A few years later, friends and I often traveled downtown (Bronx-ese for Manhattan) to attend live radio shows. Safety wasn’t a factor then. As young teens it was our letting go. Although the tickets specifically prohibited under-age teen admission, unless escorted by adults, we were most often successful in arranging for entry with adults gathering in front of the theater. On the ride down and back we always stood in the first car enjoying the engineer’s view as we rattled and rolled past tenements finally entering or exiting the dark tunnels. On my first date to Manhattan the subway car was the chariot that whisked my date and I in and out of Manhattan. Suit and tie and a girl on my arm were validation of my nascent maturity. Driving “downtown” wasn’t even an option then. My first exploration of far off Brooklyn nascent, as a teenager, was via the subway as we nervously headed for Ebbets Field to see a Dodger-Giant game. Would you believe, it was a football game? Though my friend and I had saved our coins to make the trip we came up short by about ten cents each and never did gain entrance despite begging for a couple of coins at the gate. No luck. Did they know we were from the Bronx? I learned to plan more carefully after that fiasco. The scenery for my commutation each day to

C.C.N.Y. (City College of New York) uptown may have lacked the verdancy of most private colleges but it was my introduction to the subway rush hour. When I could find a seat, the train was my study hall as well. And when I transferred to C.C.N.Y. downtown, I rode the Third Avenue El to 23rd Street for my high-rise college experience. That rickety El is no longer there but the memories of classmates who rode the rails with me are. Falling asleep in the early morning hours, returning home from dates and ending up at the last stop and having to retrace my steps are part of those memories. As are the squeal of the train’s brakes, the packed cars with no air conditioning and the temperature hovering around 90 degrees. Sure, they have air conditioning now and cars are certainly more modern. But as romantic as nostalgia often is, the motivation to once again revisit the subway scene, even in its modern guise, is not there for me. Why destroy my youthful memories?

My Life in Opera
By Jack Galin
The newspaper lay open in front of me when I saw the notice. “Wanted: NonSingers to appear in a production of “Aida” at Shea Stadium by Live Nation, a Canadian Production Company. Walk-ons needed; No experience necessary.” I knew that earlier that year ‘Live Nation” had presented a well received performance of “Aida” in Toronto. At the time, recently divorced and between marriages, with almost no social life, I was looking for activities to keep myself occupied. This had possibilities. I called the number in the notice and was advised to attend a gathering at a hotel in lower Manhattan the following evening. When I arrived there were about forty or fifty people already there; mostly men, all much younger than I. When I was called to the front desk I was asked to stand, turn, and then walk. Apparently I passed whatever the test was because I was then told to pick up two instruction booklets and advised that I would be a “Druid,” a priest in attendance to the hero. With a bounce in my step I hurried home, and with great
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anticipation, immediately read the two booklets. The first explained the nature of the production; what part the Druids would play, where we would stand, where we would march when the hero arrived. The second booklet explained where to get our costumes, what time to arrive at Shea Stadium and where to enter, where to park our car, and what to do after the production. I practically counted the days. I studied the booklets over and over practically committing them to memory. Imagine, on the main stage at Shea Stadium, in a production of perhaps the most famous of operas, before thousands of opera lovers! I could barely contain my excitement. Alas, two days before the “great day,” another announcement appeared. “Live Nation” has filed for bankruptcy; All productions are cancelled.” Sad and dejected, I wondered what might have been. Could I have been a “walk-on” in demand? Might some producer or director have said, “Now that’s what I call a Druid!” Could the Metropolitan Opera been looking for grey-haired Druids? Sic transit gloria mundi.
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Waiting in Line
By Frances Greenblatt
One of my pet peeves is to wait in lines, especially when I have time constraints. It seems that today there are lines for everything. Take the check-out line in the supermarkets. It takes longer to check out than to shop. And what about shoppers who line up with a full cart of groceries in the line for ten items only, while we stand waiting in the proper line. There always seems to be a line of women waiting to use the restroom facilities in theaters, at concerts, etc. There are always lines at airports, bus stations, and various checkpoints when traveling. I understand the need for lines for crowd control, to keep law and order, but waiting in line can be very tiring if you are not wearing comfortable shoes. Sometimes waiting in line results in a positive outcome. Years ago, while waiting in line at the London Airport for a plane to

take us to Spain, my husband and I struck up a conversation with the couple in front of us. I had noticed an address sticker on a piece of their luggage that read Roslyn, New York. My husband’s college roommate and his wife lived in Roslyn. I mentioned their name and asked if by chance they knew our friends. They laughed and told us they were their next-door neighbors. So, we became friendly with the couple during the remainder of our trip — a friendship that continued for many years.

There’s Always Tomorrow
By Ilene Paulvin
There may have been times throughout the year when you have experienced unexpected life changing events that turned your world upside down. Those events may have been illness, divorce, loss of a loved one, retirement, or unemployment. During those times we take a deep breath, stay optimistic and put our world right -side-up. I recently went through divorce after being married 40 years. I realize that divorce has proven not to be fatal (although at times I thought it might be) and am currently in the process of healing. I am a work-inprogress, open to new ideas, experiences and people. Below are a few questions that I have asked myself: Is there life after divorce? Is there opportunity in transition? Do we learn from these life -changing events? Is anything possible? I am learning that the answers are Yes, Yes, Yes and Yes. I hope you answered yes to at least one or two of these questions. If not, there is always tomorrow....

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If Cats Could Talk, What Would They Tell Us?
By Wendy Diamond
In 2005, a group of French archaeologists discovered the remains of an 8 -month-old cat buried with its human owner at a Neolithic site in Cyprus, leading some to believe cats may have been domesticated as far back as 10,000 years ago. While I’m no archaeologist, I’m certain that cats were as much of a mystery back then as they are today. We think we know everything there is to know about cats, but we really don’t - and what we don’t know can hurt them, including the dangers of flea infestations. If cats could talk, they would set the record straight about the Top 10 Cat Myths. But they can’t talk, which is why Bayer HealthCare, Animal Health Division’s Advantage(R) II for cats asked me and my “side cat,” Pasha, to speak up for them, since we’re the “Cat Myth Busters!” Myth #1: There are more dogs as pets, than cats. Fact: According to the Humane Society of the U.S., Americans have 86 million cat pets, versus 78 million dog pets - so cats rule! Myth #2: Cats who don’t scratch more than usual don’t have fleas. Fact: Even if cats don’t itch or scratch more than normal, they may still have fleas. In fact, some cats tolerate fleas in their fur. What may look like a cat’s normal nibbling could actually be their reaction to irritating fleas. And fleas can cause more than just itching; in fact, constant scratching from flea infestations can lead to hair loss and other skin issues. Addi(Continued on page 26)

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that enabled the Jewish people to worship one God as was set forth in the Ten Commandments. On Tuesday, December 25, a special holiday is celebrated by the Christian church — the birth of Jesus Christ. This most important day has found a unique place in our own country. Customs and traditions of many nationalities and faiths have gradually blended and Christmas Day represents, not only religious observances, but a time for renewing friendships, exchanging gifts, and extending warmth, generosity and good cheer to friends and relatives, both near and far. Incidentally, both Hanukah and Christmas occur during the time of the winter solstice, thus light plays an important part on both holidays: the Menorah and Christmas Tree give a warm glow to the short days of December. Let us all remember the spiritual message on these holidays: Peace On Earth, Good Will To All. The Editors and Staff of The Concordian extend best wishes to all residents of our community for a joyous Holiday Season.

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Poetry Corner
Games
By Fran Cohen
As a child I played children’s games Jump rope, monopoly, and stoop ball After school...and all summer long We played in the streets and the halls Those were the carefree days We had no worries and no stress Our parents watched over us We were lucky...more or less Although, in the thirties, times were hard We were never made aware Just allowed to be children... Without a single care Yes...it was a great childhood Remembering the fun we had But children of today are missing all that Which makes me very sad. Computers, television and video games Keep them busy all day long Rarely do we find them Outdoors where they belong

A Story To Tell
ByAnne Getter
We each have a story to tell About the sorrow and the pain We each have a story to tell What will bring tomorrow We each have a story to tell We all live in hope We each have a story to tell That the future will be better That we will have no more pain That we will have no more sorrow That we will have peace That we will have a happy tomorrow.

Here’s to You
By Ethel Tiplitsky
Here’s to you and here’s to me May we never disagree But if we do – my point of view Is best, you see.

Facing Surgery? How You Can Help Ensure The Best Outcome
When you’re facing surgery, it’s normal to feel anxious. Many people find it daunting to completely surrender their well-being to others. Common fears range from concerns about undergoing anesthesia, to how long the recovery period will last. That is why it is important to know and trust the physicians responsible for your anesthesia care. Fortunately, you can do a lot to prepare yourself for surgery and anesthesia, and take steps to help your physicians, including your anesthesiologist, achieve the best possible outcome for you. Getting the Facts on Anesthesia Anesthesia and pain management are integral facets of any surgical procedure. Fifty years ago, anesthesiarelated fatalities were about one in every 1,500 procedures. Today, that rate is less than one in every 200,000 when an anesthesiologist administers or supervises the patient’s anesthesia care. Communicating with your physicians is essential. Many hospitals provide patients with the opportunity to meet with the key members of their surgical team prior to surgery, including the anesthesia team. If the option is not offered, feel free to request a meeting and to ask critical questions. The American Society of Anesthesiologists (ASA) offers answers to some commonly asked questions, including: * What are the qualifications of an anesthesiologist? - Anesthesiologists are medical doctors who specialize in the field of anesthesiology. With more than eight years of post-graduate, advanced medical training and education, an anesthesiologist is properly prepared to make
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split-second decisions to safeguard your health before, during and following surgery. With significantly longer and more extensive training than other classifications of anesthesia practitioners, an anesthesiologist appropriately supervises the anesthesia care team. * Who else will be involved in your anesthesia care? Your anesthesia care team may also include an anesthesiologist assistant. These skilled health professionals complete four-year pre-med programs and accredited anesthesiologist assistant education programs to earn their professional certification. They are required to work under the supervision of an anesthesiologist. A nurse anesthetist is a registered nurse who has completed an accredited nurse anesthesia program. Often,

an anesthesiologist supervises the nurse’s work, but he or she may also work under the supervision of other doctors. * What type of anesthesia care might you receive? There are three basic types of anesthesia care: general, regional and local. Patients under general anesthesia are unconscious and have no awareness or other sensations. For regional anesthesia, an anesthesiologist administers an injection near a cluster of nerves to numb the area that requires surgery. Patients may remain awake, or be given a sedative. In local anesthesia, the anesthetic drug is injected into the tissue to numb only a specific location on the body that requires minor surgery. Your Role in Preparations While understanding how
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Attention: Senior Center Participants It is necessary to register, in advance, for all featured programs and activities. Individuals, who are 55 years of age and older, who reside in Monroe Township, and who are registered members of the Office, are eligible to attend Center programs and activities. For more information, please call: 732-521-6111. Reservations are the Way to Go! Since the “Walk-In” option has been eliminated, please be sure that you sign up, in advance, for the special programs each month. Please note that in order to register for programs, you must be a member of the Office. All members have the opportunity to call up to 48 hours in advance from 9 to 11:30 a.m. the morning of a program — to see if there is space available at that time to register. If you did pre-register for a program and then are unable to attend, please call the Office at 732-521-6111 to cancel. This will enable other members to sign-up.

Movies of the Month On select days of the month, sit back and enjoy a movie at the Senior Center! On Thursday, November 1, at 1 p.m., heroic action seekers will love, “The Avengers”, featuring Iron Man, Thor, and The Hulk (over 2 hours). Then, on Friday, November 30, at 1 p.m., see how life and love can begin again in “The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel” (2 hours). When registering (in advance), list each movie separately, noting the movie title and date. Eating Well Series On Fridays, November 2, 9, and 30, at 11 a.m., join the Middlesex County Public Health Department for 3 different topics on eating well. On November 2, Eating Well on the Run: Find it hard to prepare your own meals and snacks? Learn about quick and healthy choices. On November 9, Eating Well: Holiday-Style: Learn how you can enjoy holidays treats and still stay trim and healthy. On November 30, Eating Well on a Budget: Learn how to get the most from your food budget by finding easy ways

to save money on the food you eat. *** When registering (in advance), please list each program separately, noting program title and date. Laugh Out Loud On Friday, November 2, at 1:30 p.m., join Yvette Halpin for a fun-filled afternoon as she brings you laughs and laughter, Hawaiian-Style! Space limited. Drivers’ Safety On Monday, November 5, at 8:45 a.m., the AARPsponsored Drivers’ Safety program will be held in the Senior Center. Preregistration and payment are required. For more information, please contact Rosanna in the Office. Office Closings November 6, Election Day November 12, Veterans Day November 22/23, Thanksgiving Holiday Promoting Health thru Nutrition On Wednesday, November 7, at 2 p.m., join Marlene Spina, RN, Robert Wood Johnson, as she discusses the importance of food choices as it relates to health and how you look and feel.

Tired of Being Tired? On Thursday, November 8, at 1:30 p.m., Dr. Ashgan Elshinawy, Medical Director, University Medical Center at Princeton’s Sleep Center, discusses common sleep disorders and their relationship with other medical problems, like heart disease. Insomnia, restless leg syndrome, sleep apnea, and narcolepsy are among the disorders that will be explored. Cowboys & Outlaws On Friday, November 9, at 1:30 p.m., join Michael Ferreria for this DVD series, from The History Channel, on The Real West: Cowboys and Outlaws. This month, the “The James Gang” is explored. Learn how rebellious soldiers turned to crime — until the price on Jesse’s head became too great for one of his own men to resist. (Since an episode is featured once a month, please be sure to sign up for each one separately when it is listed.) Friends’ Meeting & Fred Miller On Tuesday, November 13, at 1:30 p.m., the Friends of the Senior Center, Inc. have a brief meeting before Fred Miller shares his ‘Lecture-in-Song” about the life and career of Fred Astaire. Tickets: $2 p.p. Best of Sid Caesar On Thursday, November 15, at 1:30 p.m., enjoy the magic of “LIVE TV” and the comedic genius of Sid Caesar during this DVD presentation. From “Your Show of Shows” to “Caesar’s Hour”, relive — in B&W Cooking Demo On Friday, November 16, at 1:30 p.m., Ilene Emerick, Manager of Dining Services at Wynwood at Forsgate and Culinary Institute of America graduate, will demonstrate how to prepare crepes suzette. Tasting, too! Space limited. Art of the Masters: Andy Warhol On Friday, November 16, at 2 p.m., learn about the life and works of Andy Warhol during the brief lecture. Then, 16 participants (with a project coupon) will create their own watercolor postcard in the artist’s style. In order to participate in the

project, you must request a project coupon, upon registering in-person. (Lecture only? You can register by phone.) Space Limited. Russian Nights On Monday, November 19, at 1 p.m., enjoy this DVD concert hosted by Michael Ferreira. In this program, Seiji Ozawa conducts the Berliner Philharmonic in this 1993 Russian-oriented performance. Michael & Ted Present: Carol Channing On Tuesday, November 20, at 2 p.m., Michael and Ted, from WWFM’s The Classical Network, explore the life and career of this true Show Girl. They will discuss Channing’s roles as “Dolly Levi” and “Lorelei Lee” as well as her other Broadway outings and solo recordings. Silver Screen Nostalgia On Monday, November 26, at 1:30 p.m., join Bill Levy as he looks at the musicals of Howard Keel, from “Annie Get Your Gun” to “Seven Brides for Seven Brothers” to “Show Boat.” Burt Wolf’s Spain, Switzerland & Austria On Tuesday, November 27, at 1 p.m., take an armchair adventure during this DVD presentation. From the historical, holy city, Santiago De Compostela, to culinary surprises in Switzerland and to Christmas traditions in Vienna, explore the culture, food, and festivals of each location. Roaring 90’s On Wednesday, November 28, at 2 p.m., by invitation only, individuals who are 90 years-young, are welcome to attend this special, social activity full of reminiscing and nostalgia. For more information, please contact Bonnie Leibowitz, Director. David Aaron Presents On Thursday, November 29, at 1:30 p.m., David Aaron, conductor & musician, provides this doublewhammy presentation about to great performers: Al Jolson, “The World’s Greatest Entertainer” and Eddie Cantor, “Banjo Eyes.” Learn about each entertainer’s life and career as you listen to and discuss their music via recorded works.

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tionally, fleas can cause secondary allergic reactions and problems such as tapeworm infections, cat scratch disease and anemia. Myth #3: Cats are cold and aloof, so they don’t make good pets. Fact: Cats can be just as social and affectionate as dogs. For instance, if your cat’s ears and tail are standing up - even if she’s not slobbering all over your face like Fido - she’s probably glad to see you! Myth #4: A purring cat is a happy cat. Fact: Cats purr, not only when they are happy, but also when they feel uncomfortable, like when they are
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recovering from an injury. Myth #5: Keeping cats indoors prevents them from getting fleas. Fact: Indoor cats may be at risk for fleas. In fact, fleas can be brought into the home by other pets without you even realizing it. And remember, the minute you let your indoor cat outside - even for only a few moments and even on a leash - your “indoor” cat becomes an “outdoor” cat, potentially exposed to fleas. Myth #6: Cats only smell with their noses. Fact: Cats smell with their noses and also with their mouths. So when a cat ap(Continued on page 29)

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ON THE HORIZON
All guests must be accompanied by a resident in the Clubhouse and guests will be charged $5.00 per session for attendance at all structured activities. A paid receipt must be obtained from the Concierge for admittance.
* All residents must fill out a CHOA consent form before taking all physical activity classes. *Denotes physical activity class. * Aquacize/Indoor Pool Water exercise at the indoor pool. Mon.-Fri. 11 a.m.-12 pm. Spa is not open during this class. Come join the fun. The indoor pool will be closed on the second and fourth Monday of each month for routine maintenance. Ceramics Thursday afternoons 1-4 p.m. work on your own with your fellow Concordians in a ceramic workshop setting. Any questions, call Arlette 4/2478. Crocheters/Knitters The Crochet Club meets every Friday at 12:30 p.m. and welcomes knitters as well. Make useful comforts for patients in many nursing homes, or security blankets for very ill children. We appreciate donations of washable yarn or old dryer sheets and stockings for therapeutic balls that we make. Any questions, call Elaine 4/1216 or Adele 4/9563. Duplicate Bridge Meets each Wednesday at 1 p.m. and Fridays at 7 p.m. If you need a partner, please call Barbara Cohen at 8/2838. *Exercise Classes Exercise Monday and Wednesday from 10-11:15 a.m. and Friday 11-12 p.m. in Regency Suite III to the videotape “In Sync with Cindy.” This video stresses flexibility, balance and weight workout. On Tuesday “Exercise with Mary” in the Party Room from 10-11:15 a.m. This exercise will be done to an “oldies” music tape designed and led by our volunteer Mary. On Thursdays in Regency Room from 10-11:45 a.m., enjoy a Chair Exercise class weekly. Exercise to a training and encouraging senior activity videotape. Any questions regarding any class, call Jannette 6/2275, or Betty 4/9992. Evening Book Club Our club is now a Clubhouse Monthly Activity. There is no $5 fee and no lottery. We will continue to meet on the third Thursday of the month at 7:30 pm in the Clubhouse. Our book club will discuss a variety of books and explore how they relate to our own experiences. It is important that you read the books before the meetings so that you can participate in the discussion. The books are available at the Monroe Library, in local book stores, and for purchase through the internet. Remember to plan ahead because other members are also looking for the books. Meeting dates and selected books: Thursday, November 15 Please Look After Mom by K Young-Sook Shin, Thursday, December 20 - Falling Leaves by A Yen Mah.. Please join us. Any questions please call Linda Katz 655-1566, Eileen Marcus 395-9922. *Fitness Class Monday mornings at 10-11:30 in the Party room exercise with emphasis on cardio, weight resistance training, and an equal amount of time on balance, stretching, breathing and relaxation exercise. Participants need a mat, free weights (if you have) 1-5 pounds, comfortable
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exercise clothing, sneakers and water. Call Lynn 4/1598, or Marie 6/4240 with questions. *Folk Dancing Everybody welcome on Tuesday from 10 to 11:30 a.m.. There will be Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced. Everyone will be able to get special attention with Ellen Sonnenfeldt 3/8855 and Barbara Price 4/0995. Painting and Drawing Meets Wednesday afternoon 1-4 p.m. and Friday mornings 10 a.m. to 12 noon. Bring your artwork and paint and draw on your own. Volunteer instructor Al Janover at 6/8622. Reading Roundup If you enjoy reading and discussing books our daytime book club meets in the Clubhouse from 10 a.m.-noon on the first Tuesday of the month. It is important that you read the book and participate in the discussion. The selections are available in the Monroe Township Library and may be reserved. Some books are available in large print. Books are available for purchase online as well. Meeting dates and books: November 6, The Calligrapher's Daughter by Eugenia Kim, December 4 book Buddah in the Attic by Julie Otsuka, January 8 book, Defending Jacob by William Landay. Any questions call Roz Brodsky at 860-6610. Scrabble Meets each Monday at 1 pm. Make new friends, bring a partner or come alone. Dictionaries and games provided. Enjoy a good mental workout. Any questions, please call Lyda 619-3259. Table Tennis Meets Monday to Friday, 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. in the Regency Room. All new residents welcome, bring a partner or we’ll find one for you. World Affairs-AM Around the World in 90 Minutes! Come join us in the Party Room Friday from 10 to 11:45 a.m. Enjoy sparkling, thought-provoking discussions in a friendly environment. Remember, 9 out of 10 doctors prescribe mental stimulation and socializing as two good ways to live a longer, happier life. Any ideas or questions, call Ray 8/9015. World Affairs-PM World Affairs PM meets at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesdays to discuss current events. Questions, call Seymour Fogel at 655-5987 or Irwin Bialer at 395-9561. For Your Information New Photo I.D. Cards I.D. card pictures are taken on the first and third Thursday, 9:30 a.m. to 12 and 1:30-4:30 p.m. Evening I.D. pictures taken by appointment only between 4:30 and 7 p.m. Please bring proof of age and identification (utility or phone bill.) Election Day On Election Day, Tuesday, November 6, the polls will be open at the Clubhouse from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m. for voting. Validation Stickers 2013 validation stickers are available at the Concierge desk, to update your authorized visitor passes only. Protection One Concordia’s new hot line number

to be used (ONLY) 800-238-3537. Bar Codes Bar codes will be affixed by appointment only with Trish on a daily basis at the Clubhouse. Please call (609) 655-4664. Authorized Visitor Passes Applications will be taken the first and third Wednesdays of the month. See Ilene or Kathleen only. A permanent authorized visitor pass can be purchased for $15 from 9:30 to 12 and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Evening authorized visitor passes taken by appointment only between 4:30 and 7 p.m. The resident must supply a small stamp-size picture with the address and phone number of the guest. Five passes per unit are allowed. Comcast Number 1-866-277-5574 Bookmobile in Concordia Monroe Twp. public library bookmobile will be in Concordia every other Wednesday, at the Main Gate parking lot, 10-11 a.m. November 7 and 21. Sensor Door Hours Front and back door sensor to the Clubhouse will remain unlocked from Monday-Saturday 8-11 p.m. Sunday 8-10 p.m. Indoor Pool The indoor pool will be closed on the second and fourth Monday of each month for routine maintenance. Recycling Schedule Every Wednesday Will Be Pick Up Day November 7 .................... Newspaper November 14 ................. Co-mingled November 21 .................. Newspaper November 28 ................. Co-mingled
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Front Desk Will Not Conduct Any money transactions or Clubhouse business on Mondays until 4:30 p.m. Open Board of Trustees Meeting The next Open Board of Trustees Meeting will be Monday, November 12 at 7:30 p.m. in the Regency Room. Clubhouse Pride Please be aware that there is no eating and drinking in the Clubhouse unless you are attending a paid function,. We ask that you respect your Clubhouse property as recent damages have been caused by food spillage and gum on the new chairs and carpeting. Your cooperation is appreciated. All Sports and Pool Rules Located on the rack at the Clubhouse in the Art Room Lobby.

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Veterans Days Monday, November 12 the Clubhouse will be open for business and no set ups. The pool is on a holiday schedule. Tuesday, November 13 the Clubhouse will not conduct any business until 4:30 p.m.
Winterization Permits The Monroe Township Utility Department (MTUD) requires residents winterizing their units to obtain a water permit, which is available at the Concierge desk. There is $10 fee for the permit, payable by check to the MTUD. PLEASE BRING YOUR ACCOUNT NUMBER WITH YOU. It is required before we issue your permit. Only contractors approved by the MTUD may remove the meter for the winter. Residents will be receiving all the necessary information regarding winterization. If you have any questions, please call the Management office 609-655-0382. Snowbird Mailings Once again this year the Clubhouse staff will offer its service to those of you who will be partaking of the fun and sun in Florida (or another tropical paradise) for the winter season. If you provide us with a stamped ($1.70) self addressed legal brown envelope (9½x12½) stating the months you will be away, we would be more than happy to provide you with all the fun filled activities, happening and news of the Concordia Community. We will mail 1st class the monthly Concordian middle of each month. Just leave the envelope with the Concierge before you depart for the warmer weather. Allow one to two weeks for delivery. Thanksgiving Thursday, November 22 Clubhouse closed. Friday, November 23 the Clubhouse is open but no set ups, and the pool is on a Holiday Schedule. Holiday Passes Pick up your Thanksgiving holiday passes at the Concierge desk.

Shuttle Bus Trips
Monday Shuttle: 9:15 a.m. Pick Up November 5 .................... Freehold November 12 ............ Quakerbridge November 19 .................... Freehold November 26 ............ Quakerbridge Note: November 22, NO BUS due to holiday On the first and third Monday of the month, the Shuttle Bus goes directly from shopping to the library. Wednesday Shuttle: 9:15 a.m. Pick Up Nov. 7 ............................ Cambridge Nov. 14 ........ Hamilton Market Place Nov. 21 .............. Brunswick Square Nov. 28 .... ShopRite & Stop & Shop Thursday Shuttle: Begins at 8:30 a.m. Goes to Stop & Shop in Concordia and ShopRite on Route 130. Snow Reflectors If you need a reflector to hang on your garage door when snow is in the forecast, please call the Maintenance Department at 655-4715. Change Your Clocks DON’T FORGET! Fall back on Saturday, November 3. Daylight Saving Time ends on Sunday, No-

Garbage Change Garbage is picked up twice a week on Tuesdays and Fridays. Garbage may be put out the night before, after 4 p.m. Second pick up of the week on Friday, December 28, thereafter pick up will continue on Tuesday only. Maintenance Department The Maintenance Department closes for lunch from 1-2 p.m. If you have an emergency only, your call will be forwarded to Security. Otherwise, please call between 8:30 a.m. and 1 p.m. or from 2-5 p.m. Thank you for your cooperation. Contact Forms If you have not updated your contact form in the last two years, please stop at the Concierge and pick up a form.

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Keep Food Safe in Your Kitchen with These Tips
How safe is your kitchen? It’s a question you should always be asking yourself. The majority of Americans find food safety important both at restaurants and in their own kitchen, according to new National Restaurant Association research. America’s restaurants serve 130 million customers each day, making the restaurant industry a critical component of the food safety universe. The industry has a long-standing commitment to food safety as there is nothing more important than the health and safety of guests. Almost all consumers say it is important to them to know that the restaurants they visit train employees in food safety. When it comes to cooking at home, virtually all consumers say they have at least basic knowledge of food safety. Sixty-three percent say they are aware of proper food safety practices and always follow them, while 33 percent say they are familiar with some food safety practices and follow those when they can. In order to prevent foodborne illness, avoiding crosscontamination is essential. When cooking at home, remember to follow these tips from food safety experts at the National Restaurant Association: 1. Wash your hands: Hand -washing is the first defense against cross-contamination. Wash your hands before handling any food and always after handling raw meat. 2. Touch nothing but your food: Don’t rub your nose, touch your hair or cough into your hand while preparing food, as germs from anything you touch can be transferred onto food. 3. Keep foods apart: Don’t store raw meats next to or above ready-to-eat foods in your fridge and use different utensils, knives, cutting boards and prep surfaces for raw and cooked food. A good way to remember which is which is to use different colored cutting boards, for example red for meats and green for vegetables. 4. Treat friends with food

allergies to a safe meal: Take extra care to prep dishes for guests with food allergies, as it’s not enough to simply pick the item in question off a dish. Prepare the dish separately from other food, including using separate cutting boards and utensils. September was National Food Safety Month, with an annual campaign to heighten awareness about the importance of food safety education. This year’s National Food Safety Month theme was “Be Safe, Don’t CrossContaminate,” providing tips and education on preventing the transferring of germs from one surface to another. National Food Safety Month highlights components of the NRA’s ServSafe Food Safety program - the leading source of food safety training and certification for restaurant and foodservice industry professionals for nearly 40 years. While the campaign is held each September, remember that food safety is critical year-round and should be practiced every day. For more information and free resources, visit FoodSafetyMonth.com.
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anesthesia will be used in your surgery - and by whom is important to achieve the best possible outcome, you can also do a lot to prepare yourself physically at home, before your surgery. First, follow all preoperative directions from your physicians. These can range from quitting smoking as soon as you know you face surgery, to getting a full eight hours of sleep the night before your procedure. Make sure your doctor and anesthesiologist are both aware of every medication you take, including prescrip-

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years old. She was a graduate of Morris High School, and married her husband, Jerry, when she was seventeen. They have two children, a son and a daughter. She was a stay-at-home mom for the next ten years, before moving to Brooklyn. Two summers prior to the move the family had gone to the Catskills, where her sister was staying. Her sister told the band leader at the resort to ask Sunny to sing. This turned out to be her debut. She was immediately offered a job with the band in New York City. Because she had to be a musician to be in the union, she joined local 802 as a maracas player, because singers were not recognized as musicians. Thus began her singing career, working weekends in Brooklyn, singing at weddings and Bar Mitzvahs for the next 35 years. Her weekends were full of club dates with many bands, such as Teddy Werbel, The Esquires, and the Steven Scott orchestra. She was also the singer with the house band at the Seaview Jewish Center in Canarsie. Sunny always yearned to be more than just a singer. She wanted an education as well. She enrolled in Brooklyn College, taking night courses. It took nine years to reach her goal, becoming a teacher of foreign languages at Cunningham Jr. High School in Brooklyn. While pursuing her degree, her husband took a different path. Brooklyn College had instituted a special Baccalaureate degree program, which gave credits for past life experiences, that appealed to him. Both were graduated from Brooklyn College, and he went on to NYU, where he earned a PhD in Psychology. Sunny was initiated into Phi Beta Kappa, based on her academic scores. The plaque

hangs proudly in her bathroom! She taught Spanish and French for 24 years at the same school, and is still in communication with many of her former students through Facebook. She gets a great deal of satisfaction in learning how they have grown up and succeeded in their personal lives. She still receives letters and emails telling her how much they enjoyed her classes. Sunny’s philosophy of teaching is based on a Confucius saying: “If you want make an impression for one year, plant a flower. If you want to make an impression for 100 years, plant a tree. If you want to make an impression for an eternity, teach a child.” Her philosophy adds to this: You just don’t teach a subject, you teach the whole child. She extends this to her personal life. Her daughter, Linda, followed in Sunny’s footsteps, also singing at weddings and Bar Mitzvahs for many years. She was not happy with her musical career and again followed in her mother’s footsteps. At the age of 48, she became a music teacher. As a young child, starting at age 5, Sunny was singing. Her mother, a typical stage mother, found many venues for her daughter’s talent. She was with Horn & Hardart Children’s Hour and the Ted Mack Amateur Hour and toured with the shows. Currently, she is still singing. Spending winters in Florida, she sings Yiddish songs with a Klezmer Band. Here in Concordia she was with the Players for many years and loved every minute of it. Sadly, due to her north-south life, she can no longer continue with them. However, she is active now with WCOC. Sunny is enjoying this stage of her life immensely. We are happy to have her at Concordia, to share it with us.

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for life! In addition to his devotion to the Chorale, Red is also an avid tennis player. His dedication to the group and their admiration of him show in the wonderful performances the Chorale gives us each year. Francine Hannay served as their leader for many years. When Francine had to give up the position, David Schlossberg, who is a very talented musician, took over and the performances continue to be outstanding. Among some of the concerts they have put on through the years are “Annie Get Your Gun,” “Anything Goes,” and presentations based on the music of Gershwin, as well as Lerner and Lowe. Next year, the songs of Irving Berlin, Burt Bacharach, as well as the Beatles, will make up their annual concert. Red said that they can give a broader selection using songs from several composers, instead of limiting themselves to one particular show. Besides their annual shows at ConNOVEMBER 2012 — PAGE 28

cordia, the Chorale performs outside of the community for various Independent and Assisted Living facilities in the area. The group presently has 40 members and has had as many as 50 in the past. All Concordians who enjoy singing are welcome to join the Chorale. There are no auditions, so if you like to sing in the shower, come share your talents with the Chorale. There are no meetings from December to March. The new season starts on the first Thursday in April, and all Thursdays thereafter, from 9:30 a.m. to 11:45 a.m. in the Party Room. There is a membership fee of $25 which is used towards expenses. If you have any questions, please call Red Rubenfeld at 860-1165.

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Monroe Township Library Calendar of Events
Artist in Residence featuring Stephen Kennedy 1 p.m., Saturday, November 3. Watch landscape artist Stephen Kennedy paint a landscape from a photograph. This event is offered in collaboration with the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission. Registration is not required. P.O.V. Film & Discussion: The Barber of Birmingham 1 p.m., Wednesday, November 7. Join us for a screening and post-film discussion about the 2012 Oscar-nominated short film “The Barber of Birmingham.” Follow along as Alabama barber and civil rights veteran James Armstrong experiences the fulfillment of an unimaginable dream: the election of the first AfricanAmerican president. An Official Selection of the 2011 Sundance Film Festival. Produced in association with American Documentary POV and a co-presentation with the National Black Programming Consortia. This event is a collaboration with the award-winning documentary series P.O.V. (www.pbs.org/ pov). Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk. Directed by Gail Dolgin and Robin Fryday. Running time: 25 minutes. Rating: NR. This event is a collaboration with the award-winning documentary series P.O.V. (www.pbs.org/pov). Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk. Friends International Film 2 p.m. and 6:30 p.m., Thursday, November 8. The S p a n i s h d r a m a “Anita” (2009) will be shown. Movies are shown with English subtitles. Tickets are $1 and available at Circulation. Book Café 11 a.m., Wednesday, November 14. Have you read any good books lately? Join us for Book Café, a book discussion with a twist. Rather than focus on a single title participants talk about the books that they’ve read and enjoyed. Register at the Welcome Desk. The Right to Privacy 1 p.m., Wednesday, November 14, lecture presented by Dr. Milton Heumann, Professor of Political Science, Rutgers University. Privacy is perhaps the #1 issue that confronts all of us in the 21st century. Privacy issues surrounding surveillance information collection and dissemination will be discussed while not engendering a sense of paranoia. Testing procedures which are arguably intrusive and are used as screening devices for employment will also be addressed. Issues implicated in each of these areas will be contrasted with the glacial pace of Supreme Court doctrine. Dr. Heumann is the former chair and has served on the faculty for over three decades of the Political Science Department at Rutgers
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University. This program is funded by the Horizons Speakers Bureau of the New Jersey Council for the Humanities, a state partner of the National Endowment for the Humanities. Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk. Revenge: A Lecture 10:30 a.m., Thursday, November 15, presented by Larry Herstik. Revenge, sweet revenge? Past and recent examples of revenge in our society will be the focus of this interactive discussion presented by Larry Herstik. Audience is encouraged to share their views on the topic. Larry Herstik is a former educator and consultant from New York City and frequently speaks at schools, community, and civic organizations. Free tickets are available at the Welcome Desk. Great Decisions Discussion Forum 10:30 a.m., Saturday, November 17. The topic of the Energy Geopolitics will be discussed. The energy markets have been shaken by

the instability of Middle East oil and the vulnerability of nuclear power. Moreover, developing countries like China are becoming bigger energy consumers, while energy producers like Russia see the opportunity to widen their influence. In this changed landscape, how will the U.S.’s energy needs affect its relations with other nations? Sign up and reserve background information at the Welcome Desk. Chamber Music Series 1 p.m., Monday, November 19, presented by Princeton Symphony Orchestra. International Tour of Brass Instruments will perform. Amongst the pieces to be performed include Bach, Joplin, Ellington, Brahms, Debussy. Additional events in this series are Mondays, January 21 and April 22. This event is offered in collaboration with the Monroe Township Cultural Arts Commission. Registration is not required. Library Board Meeting 6:30 p.m., Monday, November 19

International Book Club 10:30 a.m., Tuesday, November 27. A discussion about The Lake by Japanese author Banana Yoshimoto. Sign up and reserve your copy at the Welcome Desk. Friends of the Library Meeting 7 p.m., Tuesday, November 27 Rotunda Art Gallery A collection of photography by Walt Marz will be on display through January. Library Closings: Tuesday, November 6 Monday, November 12 Thursday, November 22 Friday, November 23 All events are open to the public.

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pears to be smiling, she may just be opening her mouth slightly so that she can better sniff out the situation! Myth #7: Cats take care of themselves, and so are low maintenance. Fact: Cats may seem like they groom themselves more and complain less than dogs, but they need just as much healthcare as dogs, including application of a flea preventive once a month, 12 months a year, and at least an annual check-up by your vet. The Bayer Veterinary Care Usage Study revealed forty percent of cats have not been to the vet in the last year, which is especially harmful for older cats since they are more prone to diabetes, kidney failure and cancer. Myth #8: Cats only need flea prevention during the summer months. Fact: Since fleas in virtually any weather can pose problems to your cat, the Companion Animal Parasite Council recommends providing pets with year-round flea control. Myth #9: Cats and dogs are arch-enemies. Fact: “Fighting like cats and dogs” is an old cat’s tale! Cats and dogs can be buddies if they’re introduced to each other gradually, allowing them to get familiar with each other. Spaying or neutering cat and dog pets may limit aggressive tendencies. Myth #10: Milk is good for cats. Fact: Many cats are lactose intolerant, so even if a

cat enjoys milk, it may be hard for her to digest. Pasha and I have come up with a “win-win” game plan for you to learn more about protecting your cats against fleas, while protecting cats in shelters, too. And it’s easy! Visit CatMythBusters.com to play our myth game and join the PetParents.com community, which gives you access to helpful tips and resources. For every new PetParents.com member, a donation of Bayer’s Advantage II for cats will be made to AdoptaPet.com, a nonprofit pet adoption charity that helps shelters, humane societies, SPCAs, pet rescue groups and pet adoption agencies advertise their homeless pets to adopters for free. Ten cat myths busted: mission accomplished! Until next time, this is Wendy Diamond and Pasha reminding you to love your cat and treat her monthly with a flea preventive like Bayer’s Advantage II for cats! Wendy Diamond is America’s foremost pet lifestyle expert and a frequent contributor to the Today Show, Good Morning America and other national media outlets. Pasha is a Russian Blue cat with his paw on the pulse of the top feline trends. Together, this dynamic duo is known as the “Cat Myth Busters!” For more information on Bayer’s Advantage II for cats, visit CatMythBusters.com. —ARA
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“Between the Covers” Book Sale Sponsored by The Friends
The Friends of the Library are sponsoring a “Between the Covers” book sale on Saturday, December 1 during library hours. Find bargains on gently used hardcover books. The sale will be held from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., at the Monroe Township Public Library, 4 Municipal Plaza, Monroe Twp.

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Gallery Artist Reception featuring Walt Marz
On exhibit through January in the Library’s Rotunda Art Gallery is a collection of photographs taken by Walt Marz. The exhibit features photographs taken in nature and during travel. Walt Marz returned to professional photography after 20 years in electronic research engineering with RCA and ten years as a management consultant for Johnson & Johnson. He currently resides in Monroe. The public is invited to meet Marz during an artist reception from 1 to 3 p.m. on Saturday, December 1. Light refreshments will be served. Registration is not required.

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Walkers 9:00-10:00 Chair Exercise 10:00-11:15 Table Tennis 10:00-12:00 Extra Cards 12:30 Ceramic Workshop 1:004:00 Weight Management Class 4:00-5:00 Extra Cards 7:00 Computer Club (Gen. Mtg.) 7:30

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Walkers 9:00-9:30 Zumba Class 9:35-10:45 Table Tennis 10:00-12:00 World Affairs 10:00-12:00 Painting & Drawing Workshop 10:00-12:00 W.C.O.C. (Bd. Mtg.) 10:001:00 Exercise Class 11:00-12:00 Extra Cards 12:30 Crocheter’s Club 12:30 Duplicate Bridge 7:00

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THE CONCORDIAN

EN HIP! P O NS O W S AL E TO W O NO ONR M IN

“I didn’t want a diabetic wound to let these moments get away.”

Frank DeMonico

THE WOUND CARE SPECIALISTS AT SAINT PETER’S SAVED MY LEG...AND MY LIFE.
I’ve got two loves in my life—my family and fishing. But after a wound on my leg just wouldn’t heal, I thought my fishing days were over. As a diabetic I was really worried, because non-healing wounds can cause serious complications. Today, thanks to the wound care specialists at Saint Peter’s University Hospital, my wound has fully healed, and I’m excited to be back fishing again. At the Wound Care Center, we’re proud to have helped Frank DeMonico and hundreds of other patients get back to the life they love.

To learn more about our Wound Care Center® and Hyperbaric Services, call toll free 866.378.4132 or visit saintpetershcs.com/WoundCare

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